Hey there, thanks for stopping by! 🤗

I'm very new to posting ads on reddit and not quite sure what these are supposed to look like, so I'm just gonna go for it and hope for the best🤞!! I also know I have a tendency to write a lot, and this will likely end up being quite long so I'll also include a tl;dr upfront so you can decide if you wanna read the whole thing (I hope you do 😉) Anyways, here goes ☺️

TL;DR: I'm a smart, cute, witty, and passionate sub/litttle with a very filthy mind. I'm looking for a partner who appreciates the former and can satisfy the latter, all within the context of a D/s relationship. I'm romantically and emotionally monogamous, and open to starting things online but with the intent to eventually transition to some degree of in person contact. I can sometimes be a lot, and require a fair bit of attention, but I will reciprocate as much, if not more. Ideally looking for an affectionate but strict D-type with Daddy, Caregiver and/or Pleasure Dom tendencies.

A bit about me

I'm 31, currently based in Europe (but not European), a bit below average height cutie who absolutely loves her curves. I have thick thighs, nice tits and a pretty great ass! I like to keep both my body and mind active so I workout a few times a week, hike sometimes on the weekends and I'm also an avid reader. I find my peace and center being in nature, especially close to water, and am very much a sun, sand and sea kinda girl.

Open, intentional and transparent communication is extremely important to me. I like to think I'm a decent conversationalist and love some good, wholesome banter, as much as I do deep, insightful and thought provoking chats. I also value honestly and above all, I try always to be kind.

A bit about me as a sub

I identify as a sub with little tendencies, but without the age play aspects. I'm not quite a service sub but I do very much like and am eager to please, whether that's by being obedient and following orders, or knowing my D-type well enough to know what makes him smile, what he needs after a rough day, knowing how best to support him through a difficult time and making sure he has all that. I don't identify as a brat, but a sassy comment or two can be expected from time to time.

A bit about my needs in a D/s dynamic

When I submit, I give my D-type the power to use me for his pleasure, amusement and comfort as he sees fit within our agreed upon boundaries. I allow him to have both mental and physical domination and control, and in return I need and expect his attention, care, guidance, protection and adoration. Consistent communication, frequent check-ins and diligent after care is also a must for me.

I need a fair bit of attention and stimulation, and very much appreciate creative ways of keeping my mind and body engaged and fulfilled. And while this may seem trivial to some, it's also important for me that my D-type knows, understands and likes me as a person first and a sub second, and I would like to be given the privilege to get to know him as a person first as well.

A bit about what I'm looking for

So with all of that said, I'm looking for a D-type with whom I can build a strong and fulfilling romantic relationship, with D/s at it's core. I'm looking for my best friend, my protector, my mentor, and my safe space. In short, I'm looking for my person. As I would like for this to eventually transition from the internet to the real world, I do have a slight preference for someone who is also European based or frequently in Europe.

I'm fully aware that reddit is likely the worst platform for this, but I also don't have anything to lose, so here we are, choosing to be a bit optimistic ☺️

If any of this sounds appealing to you, feel free to reach out and let's hav a a chat!