I’m beginning to realize the difference between seeking, wanting, and needing. I don’t need anything, but I want a better future for myself, and I seek meaningful companionship that resonates with my journey.

My life role has developed as a caregiver to an aging family member, soon to take on the same role for another. Before this, my path was unconventional, but caregiving has become part of my life's balance. Over time, I’ve worked on bettering myself, taking small, steady steps. At 36, I continue this work, learning to navigate commitments, my autonomy, and personal growth.

For a long time, I’ve lived with an unfulfilled desire to receive care. Doesn’t everyone, on some level? I’m ready for that now. I know myself; I care for myself. I’ve done the internal work, and I’ve set goals for my future, all while trying to balance the weight of my responsibilities.

I strive to be authentic, kind, and always courteous. Though I may come off a bit boisterous when I warm up, I’ve learned to adjust to the situation. I read a room well—I can be charismatic, polite, or helpful in the background depending on what’s needed. Life has cast me in many roles, and I’m trainable.

Fitness matters to me, but like many, I find myself putting it off while focusing on everything else. I know my body has potential, and I’d love to explore that more, but balance is tricky. At 5’4 and 140 lbs., I’d describe myself as dough cute. I’m fair-skinned with dark hair. Ibwould appreciate a picture sooner if we connect further.

My journey, has its challenge but I'm serious and practical for what’s ahead , altough a bit caught in whimsy day dreams. I understand the appeal of partnership now more than ever. While I remain sort of identifed with solo poly, I’ve come to see the value in having someone alongside, sharing the weight.

I imagine love and support that expands emotional and physical capacities. Maybe I’m daydreaming a bit, but I yearn for a connection that feels natural yet transformative. Getting into the throws of kink should be a natural progression in a further correspondence. I am open to getting there. So feel free to share any absolutes or limits. I should clarify that I'm not looking for ddgl or pet play. I may be looking for something sweet. I am open to a lot of discoveries. Let's see where we collide, that's part of the fun isn't it.

I’m a patient, loyal friend by nature, and my life has shifted in many ways over the past few years. I’m ready to embrace my deepest desires and find a mutually fulfilling connection that supports both my growth and yours. I seek a person -or couple who is compassionate, tall, and practices good hygiene, preferably with some experience. I am cis F 4 Anyone over 25 If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to connect.