Let me take a guess here.

This is probably your, what, third or fourth return trip to this subreddit just today, right? You've probably lost count of how many posts you've read and messages you've sent, only to end up at square one again. That must be frustrating for a sub like you. That need, that desire to find that Dom who understands you just keeps pulling at you, and every failed attempt just makes that desire grow stronger. I'm sure you've even tried your hand at writing your own post a couple of times, but the replies you received were mostly less than stellar. There may have been a few messages that deserved a response, maybe even one or two conversations kept going for a few days. But you eventually learned that the person on the other end of the computer misrepresented themselves, and they weren't actually what you were needing in a Dom - they just pretended to be.

My experience in the BDSM lifestyle goes back several years, both in-person and online dynamics, and my most recent one ended not long ago, so I'm on the search for my new sub. I've dealt with a range of submissives - experienced, inexperienced, obedient, bratty - and what I've learned is that the only way a sub can truly and 100% submit to a Dom is through trust. Being a submissive leaves you in a vulnerable position, after all, and you need a Dom who understands that, one who you can trust your entire self with - your body, your mind, your emotions - and trust that he'll stay within your absolute limits while, at the same time, pushing your boundaries to be the sub you crave to be.

Whether you're looking for a TPE situation or something that's more of a mix with tasks, rules, and the freedom to live your life outside this dynamic, if anything I said above resonates with you, send me a message and let's have a chat. I'm not the kind of Dom who likes to share, so I'm looking for only one sub. Once I find her, this post will be taken down.

I want to add that I’m disciplined enough to keep myself in decent shape, and I expect the same from a sub. That’s not to say you need to be super thin or anything like that - just by HWP. If you identify as BBW, plus size, etc., then I’m not the Dom for you.

One of my favorite things to do is train a sub, especially an inexperienced one. It’s quite fulfilling for me to be your guide to kink on the road to becoming the perfect slutty sub for me.

I'm looking for online but will entertain in-person dynamics or meetups. I live in the United States within the Central Time Zone.

I want your first message to include your name, age, time zone, a description of you, and what you’re wearing right now. While I will want to exchange pictures eventually, they are not required at this time. However, I will say that if you send a picture with your first message, you move to the top of my inbox.