I'm looking for a like-minded Dominant/Sadist/Disciplinarian to build a sort of 24/7 style dynamic with in the Denver area (Colorado locals only please, not interested in online or long distance).
I have 0 interest in hookups or jumping into anything sexual, even in conversation. Please read that again. A good dynamic takes a lot of trust, connection, respect of boundaries, safety, and consent. If you're not willing to put in the work to build that, please don't waste your time or mine.
I'm very into playing with power dynamics and making staying disciplined more fun with kink. I love being told what to do, following protocols, doing tasks and being rewarded for being a good girl. Additionally, I'm quite the masochist and love impact play, being overpowered, and manhandled (Regular spankings are a must!). Toys, restraints, forced orgasms and orgasm control are a lot of fun, too. I also am curious about exploring more with rope, free use, CNC, electroplay, threesomes, and a lot more. I'm truly open and curious to try most things in the realm of BDSM and D/s.
Typically, I'm attracted to masculine and confident types around my age (32-48 roughly) who are strong communicators that stand by their word, act with accountability and integrity, and speak with their actions. Someone who puts in the effort to make me feel cared for and respected as much as they make me feel like a dirty lil pain slut. 😇
As for me, I'm 5'7, extra thick but very active and adventurous. I got a strong heart, personality, pain limit, and sex drive but can be pretty introverted and reserved to start. I warm up quickly with the right connection and am silly and humorous when situations allow. I'm very good at making the best of things and appreciate people who are the same. I love to be spoiled with affection, attention, time, and gifts and to spoil my Dom similarly in return. I also can be a bit bratty if you're into that.
Vanilla me is very into music, hiking, camping, backpacking, traveling, astrology, 420/710, health/fitness/biohacking, trying new restaurants, hanging with friends and my dog, sharing memes, and dismantling capitalism.
Racists, cops, and capitalist simps need not apply.
Also, while I lean towards relationship anarchy and am open to discussing most relationship styles, people with primary partners or multiple partners are less appealing. I'm ultimately wanting someone who has a lot of time to exchange with me and put into this dynamic, both in and out of the bedroom. I'd love to be someone's live in sub one day, too.
Please reach out if you'd like to chat and learn more. PS I would love to connect to other locals in the kink community, make friends, or non sexual playmates as well so if any of this resonates with you, don't hesitate to message me.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 2 weeks ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/BDSMPersona...