I want to start out by being clear that I am married and not looking to change that. My husband is aware and comfortable with me exploring this side of myself online. I’ll never be available for meeting up in person.
About me: I’m 34, female, and on the east coast. Attraction is important so be aware that I’m plus sized. I’m not the most confident person but I’ll still acknowledge that I’m pretty.
I’m a creative and curious person. I like getting to know others and genuinely want to be friends. I like quick banter and might come across as bratty at times but it’s all a bluff. I want nothing more than to submit go you and your wishes.
I love data and tracking information. Kink wise I have a google doc that I curated when I was dating. It’s in person focused but still has valuable information on what I like. I’m thinking of making a new section for online only but I’m not sure what to include yet. If you’re truly curious, I’ll let you see my orgasm tracker too. I really love the idea of having to keep a record of our exchanges somehow.
I like - power exchange, masturbation control, blue tooth toys (I have several), self bondage, and self impact. (There’s more here but I was trying to pull out what I thought would be suitable for an online arrangement.)
I do not like - being ignored as punishment, limited degradation/humiliation (no personal attacks)
About you: You should be 30-50, male or presenting as male, and have a time zone close to east coast time.
I will want to see your face at some point. As I mentioned above, attraction is important, even online.
You should be willing to show interest in me and my life. None of this “too cool to care” crap.
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