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Here is a little about me:

• I am 41 and live in Southeast Michigan, Poly/ENM Partnered - Looking for a play partner!
• I absolutely love music. I am a huge hard rock fan yet I appreciate many different styles and types of music. I love live music/concerts! Always could use a concert friend!
• I play several instruments (Guitar, Bass, Violin, Drums) mainly drums and write lyrics/music.
• I am well educated and value lifelong learning. Intelligence (sapiosexual), personal drive and an open mind are important to me.
• I am a huge foodie - I enjoy wine/a good drink, great food and fun/interesting restaurants. Let’s explore! I hate onions! Food restrictions like allergies or sensitivities do not bother me at all.
• I enjoy being active and being outdoors - Working out, hiking, being in nature, swimming, urban exploring etc.
• I love adventures and exploring new places, cities, zoos, aquariums and museum's.
• I am fascinated by science, astronomy, paleontology, just how things work... the paranormal etc.
• I enjoy playing video games (RPG's/MMO's mainly) in my spare time.
• I am a huge animal person and I currently have two dogs!

Kinky me: I have been in the BDSM community for 20 years. I am active in my local BDSM community and am proud to be a kink/BDSM educator on a variety of topics.

I describe myself as a sadistic primal dominant. My core kinks are:

• S&M (paddles, floggers, canes, spanking, whips, and pain related predicament scenarios etc.).
• Bondage/Restraints
• Rope bondage
• Edge, Knife and Fear Play
• Electricity (violet wand), Wax, Medical and Pet Play
• Primal Play/Rough body play
• Mental/physical degradation/humiliation
• Consensual Non-Consent (CNC)/TPE
• Emotional sadism and behavior modification
• D/s - M/s dynamics (Conditioning, Protocol and Connection)
• Gags/gagging/choking/asphyxiation/breath play

Please note: Just because I enjoy the kinks above does not mean you have too. Do not let my interests detour you if you are interested in talking further.

What I am looking for: 

• I am primarily looking for a consistent play partner preferably more local to me/Southeast Michigan. I open to partners in other states or online as long as there is a commitment to communication
• I am looking for someone who wants to explore BDSM/Kink together and fulfill our mutual needs.  
• I want someone who is attentive, a strong communicator but is independent and is stable. 
• Personality (Sense of humor, intellect, ability to hold a conversation, hobbies and interests etc) and character (ethics, empathy, kind, giving etc) are the biggest aspects I am attracted to. With that said, I am physically attracted to petite, athletic and or average body types. I really like tattoos and piercings as well. 420 friendly as well. 

Message/DM me here or on one of the socials below if you feel we might have some common interests or if you want to see if we connect!

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