What I'm seeking isn't something easily put into words—but we'll know it when it happens. It's a spark, a deep connection, the kind that feels like slipping into a cozy, familiar blanket. It's that elusive bond where everything just clicks—a long-term relationship and dynamic built on mutual respect, trust, and a whole lot of communication. I do prefer a slightly older man. More of a big brother's best friend or upper classman feel, so from 36-46.

I believe relationships take time. Unwrapping each other’s minds, savoring every layer—this is what I'm about. I'm not here for quick thrills; I'm here for someone who values the journey of understanding what makes us tick. When we build that trust, you’ll know where you stand with me. We’ll be together because we choose to be, not because it’s easy, but because we both want it.

Yes, I’ve got a bratty side—but I’m an individual first. Labels don't define me. So, when I set a boundary, I expect it to be respected. I want someone who communicates, not someone who shrugs off my words because "brats will brat." If you're ever unsure, ask. We'll always be honest with each other, even in those playful moments where the lines can blur.

I'm looking for a Daddy. A true caregiver. Someone who understands that relationships are a beautiful balance of give and take. If I’m under the weather, you’ll take care of me. If you’re down, I’ll step up and be your rock. We’ll lift each other when needed, because that’s what partners do.

But let's be real—sometimes, I’ll want more than just tenderness. There's a primal edge to what I want. I crave that look in your eyes when you’ve got me pinned, and I’ve lost the chase. And I won’t stop coming for you either—even though deep down, we both know I want to lose in the end.

About me? I’m working on moving to San Diego, trying to get settled there while I still have the chance to be close to my grandmother. Family is everything to me. I’m also diving into a passion project—self-publishing the stories that have been swirling in my mind for ages. I’ve finally stopped overthinking it and decided to move forward. Time to make those ideas into a story!

I’ve built a supportive community online, and I’d love to share that space with someone. It doesn’t have to happen right away, but eventually, I’d like us to explore that together. While I value online connections, I'm also looking forward to attending local events and being active IRL. Parties are way more fun with a partner in crime, and, honestly, I’m a little shy when it comes to large groups.

I’m open to starting something online but ultimately want to move things offline when the time is right. If any of this resonates with you, maybe it’s time we chat.

Just a heads up, I'm currently sick and still trying to juggle a lot of projects at the moment. Please don't jump into the sexual or kink.