Hey there,

Thanks for reading my post, I hope you'll make it to the end since it's quite a long post 😊

Things to get out of the way first:

• Communication is very important to me 😊
• I'm in an open relationship, and she's totally fine with this. We have a non-sexual relationship.

So did you read so far without stopping and are you looking for a true connection, a new friend and someone to explore with, please continue reading ❤️

Reason for posting

The reasoning behind typing all of this is because I've got an unsatisfied craving, wish, fantasy, whatever you might call it. The title says alot, but more of the background is that by putting effort in this post it might open up the opportunity to actually find someone amazing that matches what I'm looking for.

About me

Hey! I'm Matt from The Netherlands. Currently 31 years old, living together with my partner. This is a non-sexual relationship and a dynamic with a potential match will not involve my partner in any way, shape or form. She's totally on board with this. I'm working as a lead-software developer in a team of 10 people and I really enjoy it. Mostly work from home, but at the office a couple of days a week. My hobbies and interests include football (Liverpool), music (The Beatles, punk, metal, folk, you name it), visiting concerts/festivals, going out for dinner and much more. Just as a filter, please tell me your favorite band so I can filter out those who didn't actually read the post. Physically I'm a big guy, 1.93m/6.3ft and a bit overweight which I am working on.

Submission

Now on to the actual thing. Ever since I'm sexually active I've got this lingering submissive side. As professionally and socially I got more and more dominant over the years, the craving to experience submission grew. This isn't an overly sexual thing, but it is part of it. The main focus in these thoughts has always been giving over control in some way. A list of things I'd want to explore:

• Power exchange
• Service-oriented submission
• Orgasm control / denial
• Obedience
• Worship
• Servitude
• Light humiliation/degradation

What I am looking for

It might throw you off-guard, but the main thing I am looking for is a true friendship and deep connection, with the benefits of exploring some type of D/s dynamic with (or vice versa). Preferably with someone closeby, so we can meet in real life (which I would be very nervous about, which is good to know) but I'm definitely also open for an online dynamic if we can make things work. You have to be communicative (that's the most important thing) and wanting to get to know each other besides the dynamic. Around my age would be perfect, but as long as you're above 24 and under 45 I'm all game.

So have you made it this far? Great! Still want to message me? Even better! Make sure to introduce yourself so I know what I'm dealing with, and let's try to make this a positive experience for both of us 💖

Thanks again, and I look forward to your message,

Matt