Hello. I'm seeking a submissive woman who would enjoy chatting and seeing where things go. I'm looking for something casual to serious. Something like a kinky FWB, but open to more. I'm poly/ENM and would prefer someone who's poly, or poly-friendly.

A little about me:

I'm intellegent, open-minded, and very easy-going. I value open and honest communication. I enjoy deep conversations along with some fun banter, and have a great sense of humor. I have a lot of varied interests. My biggest one is music in all its forms. It's constant part of my life.

Kink-wise, I'm an experienced BDSM player, with over a dozen years in the lifestyle. I'm a caring, sometimes stern, occasionally sadistic, dominant . I like to have fun, and don't mind an occasional brat.

Some of my kinks are receiving service, giving tasks, body inspctions, impact play (spanking, flogging, whips, paddles), orgasm control, anal play, bondage, electrical play (violet wand, e-stim), sensation play and sensory deprivation, and some wardrobe control. Bonus points if you're into CNC, free use, or other darker kinks. Limits will be discussed and honored.

What I'm looking for:

Someone fun, emotionally mature, with a good sense of humor. I'm open to any age over 35, however we do need to have some things in common. I don't have a "type," but I do need to find you attractive as bdsm is as visual for me as it is mental. You'll need to be comfortable sending at least a SFW pic early on.

You should already have an idea of the kinks you enjoy, and be willing to try new ones. If you try something and don't like it, that's fine. But be willing to try. I hope you would eventually be comfortable showing your body to me. I like looking at my sub, seeing her vulnerable. While not into age play, I do enjoy a hint of DDlg (a middle vs. a little), and I like a sub who is flirty, feigns innocence, and is a bit bratty occasionally. Kink is inherently sexual for me, so be open to things getting sexual.

If any of this resonates with you, please reach out. DMs or Chat are fine. Let me know you're answering my ad, and begin by telling me what color eyes you have..