Hi, hope you are having a good weekend. I am looking to connect with people in irl, who are looking for long-term play partners. Ideally a monogamous-ish relationship.

I am 34, single straight East Indian guy in SF Bay area. I am kind, curious, easy going, a good conversationalist. I value good communication, mental health, vulnerability and emotional regulation very much. I am ideally looking for my life partner, my person to do all sorts of things. I want to build life together, go on hikes, cook together, indulge in our creative outlets, cry in front of each other (when we need that carathetic release)... Basically do life together the way we want.

One of the important things for me is to be able to indulge in kinks. I am not looking for a 24*7 TPE, that is very exhausting. I consider myself a combination of sensual Dom, service top and a primal kinkster. I am looking for a partner who ranks high on the submissive scale, someone (over time with trust) is comfortable relinquishing herself to me for few hours. Some of my favorite kinks to engage in : - Orgasm Control (denial, forced orgasms, time sensitive orgasms....) - Light impact play (giving). Usually paddle or whips. No permanent marks or bruises which last more than few days. Absolutely no drawing of blood. - Primal play. - FreeUse with boundaries. - Public play. Under the night sky with meteor shower, or deep in the forest by a waterfalls, sometimes in a crowded restaurant under the table. - Ropes and restrains. I am learning shibari and would love it if you are into being a rope bottom. - Blindfold and restrains. I like teasing. - Vanilla cannot keep hands off of each other kind of sex.

Always included: - Enthusiastic Consent and an open space to discuss anything. - Cuddles - I am a huge cuddle bug, and cuddles are soothing for me. I definitely need them before, during and after play, plus at random times of the day. - Longing kisses. Passionate makeout sessions. I cannot get enough of you kisses... - I like to make my partner feel desired and ravished.

Open to trying (with caution): - CNC - Needs lot of trust and conversations around this. - Wax play. I am very curious about this. - Watersports. Not sure how I feel about it, but open to trying - Maybe more...

Hard limits: - Scat, blood, incest, anything permanent and illegal. - Abusive behavior and lack of communication. - Wanting to jump into bed first time we meet. I am Demi-sexual. - Using humans as kink dispensers.

If this caught your eye and you are interested, please send me a message or chat. Tell me a bit about your and what caught your eye in my post. Also, if you are not located in central California, I am open to connecting, but that is not my first priority.