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41 [M4F] #USA Yet another Dominant looking for long term partner
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TheCalmHands is a male age 41 looking for a female in USA
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I know how hard it is out here. Thereā€™s an endless pile of male Doms. Each one more full of ourselves than the last. If youā€™re even reading this how do you pick which post youā€™re going to respond to. What would ā€œstanding outā€ even look like? Someone self-aware? Someone who recognizes the position youā€™re in? Someone who will treat you with respect? Someone who will start on an even playing field especially when the goal is an intentional consensual power imbalance? Someone who isnā€™t just looking for quick sexual satisfaction even though we know how to bring that about for you and for us? Someone who wants to get to know you deeply? Someone who understands that trust isnā€™t just earned, but proving trustworthiness is an ongoing process? Someone who knows when to take things seriously and when to be playful?

Itā€™s easy to talk about floggers and gags and commands. It difficult to talk about insecurities and fears. It takes security to know that being vulnerable doesnā€™t make you weak on either side of the slash.

What all that amounts to is that finding the right partner for you is difficult. It can feel impossible. I certainly donā€™t think Iā€™m the right partner for everyone, but maybe, just maybe Iā€™m the right partner for you. Iā€™m all the things listed above and a whole lot more. Iā€™m emotionally and physically available. Iā€™m openly and directly communicative.

I havenā€™t said much about what Iā€™m looking for. Thatā€™s somewhat intentional. Iā€™m open to a lot and would prefer to create a dynamic organically based on mutual interests. So tell me what youā€™re into.

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