I've tried responding to personals for a while with little luck, even getting a reply is super rare, so I figured I'd try my luck with a personal of my own.

I'm a 39 yo dom from central Europe, about 6' tall, brown hair with a bit of grey mixed in, green grey eyes and an average / slimish build. I've always been naturally dominant and been consciously into d/s and bdsm dynamics for about 17 years, on and off. I'm fairly soft and cuddly most of the times, pretty goofy and silly, but don't mistake that for being easy to manipulate or super lenient with rules and expectations. Some of my kinks, fetishes and likes are anal (giving), obedience, edging and denial (as punishment), voyeurism (not the creepy stalky non-consensual type), some ddlg. While I enjoy handing out good spanking here and there or some light pain play, I'm absolutely not a sadist. So if you enjoy having your ass beaten until your skin cracks open I'm not for you. Other limits include anything to do with scat, puke, gore, sexual age play, diapers. These are non-negotiables. I'm monogamous and have no interest in anything poly.

I'm looking for a female submissive for a long term dynamic. This doesn't mean it has to be super serious from the start but I don't want any quick flings. Location doesn't matter, LDR/online to start is fine, meeting IRL if things work out is deffo an option down the road. Your age doesn't matter that much although someone around my age within the 30-50 range would be great. Your height doesn't matter, I highly prefer small frames though so please be skinny, slim, athletic or average. A small frame with curves is fine. Kink wise I strongly prefer good obedient women that enjoy to please and serve. A little bit of brattyness and playful resistance is fun but ultimately I don't wanna fight for everything I ask for all the time. Matching kinks would be great but I'm always open to trying new things as long as they're not off limits.

If this caught your attention please reach out by DM or chat and give me a short indroduction and description of yourself. I'm looking forward to hearing from you :)

Lastly a short disclaimer: I'm not gonna subscribe to any sites and I'm not gonna buy you gifts or give you money to talk to you. Also if you're someone prone to leaving people on read all the time or you're just gonna ghost if you lose interest please don't bother.