Hello all!

I'm a 32 year old female submissive. I would love to explore the bdsm world a little more, and so right now I am in search of a Dom!

Ideally, I am hoping to connect with a Dom who strikes a pretty good balance between being both kind and strict/assertive—someone that can be really sweet and endearing and showers me with adoration, affection, and praise, but also has a strict, dominant, sadistic side, and can be firm with me as needed, especially as I am a little bratty!

In terms of being strict and sadistic (within reason!!!), I am looking for someone who can be firm and assertive when necessary. Someone who is interested and willing to assign me tasks, check in for completion, and establish praise/rewards or make sure that I carry out appropriate punishments. Someone who would be excited to incorporate some aspects of TPE into the dynamic. Someone who wants to create routines for me and make decisions on my behalf, whether it's picking out my clothes for work, what I eat for dinner, or the color I paint my nails. Additionally, I would love someone who has the time to set aside during evenings or weekends to have some play sessions together :) As far as kinks go, praise, orgasm control, pain, and psychological play are the things I'm most interested in, but there is a lot I would like to explore, and so someone who is patient, but can also manage to push my boundaries in a tasteful way!

In terms of being gentle and adoring, I would really love someone who is open to committing themselves to the dynamic on a more personal level. Not just a Dom, but at the end of the day, a confidant and source of comfort, support, and companionship. I can become attached very easily and really love attention and being able to turn to you or talk whenever—so someone who doesn't mind that would be great! If you've read this far, message me "Connection is key" to start chatting with me! Ideally my Dom would have time to chat during the day. About our days, life, interests, hobbies (I love cooking and baking) , passions (and true crime lol), books, tv, and anything you'd like really. Emotional & intellectual stimulation is important to me, so being able to talk often and with substance would be great!

In terms of appearance, I am 5'6", 130lbs, with long reddish-brown hair, and some tattoos. While I am open to sharing pictures, ideally I would like to chat with any potential Doms for a little bit and build comfort and trust to work myself up to that! I hope you'll understand and respect that! :) If you are looking for something similar and think we would vibe, send me a message! Super excited to connect with you!