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39 [F4M] #Illinois I'm probably posting this for the free dopamine drip of momentary attention into my beggar's cup of loneliness. But you're reading this so we are both probably not our best selves at the moment, yeah?
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Cumming_Apart is a female age 39 looking for a male in Illinois
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At risk of sounding egotistical in my introduction, I do acknowledge that even my "doing the work" self is quite a delight to know, for the right persons. But knowing people is hard work but maybe meeting you this way, can make that easier?

My most successful/long term relationships have had some level of D/s dynamic. Though now that I better understand myself, I'm not sure if it's still right for me. But I'd like to find out if you're interested in the conversation & interesting during. I'm not going to list my kinks here because while that's certainly how I get my kicks, you gotta learn to walk before line dancing or the Hokey Pokey. Plus, it will filter out a lot of unsuitable people.

Though occasionally accused of being pretentious, I'm mostly incapable of false pretenses. Any falsities, even those that are socially mandated or polite, come difficult, though I can justify those choices because I live in society, masking, etcetera.

I like to sit outside on the porch and smoke marijuana and watch the birds. I recognize their personalities & interactions with each other. I also play with the three dogs I currently co-exist with. I just finished my first basic sewing project in 20 years and would like to do more.

Other people, if pressed for adjectives for me would probably say autistic, thoughtful, creative and funny. But that's all for you to decide. I'm sure they'd also say things like weird, sanctimonious, know-it-all and everyone would be right.

I'm afraid I've said too much- this is the whole of me.

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