Hi!

I know my future Daddy is on the lookout for me too, so I thought I might write this to guide you the right way (I know so gracious of me 💅).

"Say what you want and you shall receive it." is how the saying goes, so that's what I am trying to do here.

Let's start with the foreplay before we go into the main event:

I am monogamous only and I am looking for commitment with the goal of forever. I am also !!childfree!! in every way and wish for it to stay that way. (I am marking this word cause some of you tend to ignore it.)

I want us to get to know each other as people and to take it step by step but being together in real life is significant to me.

I am a liberal person, I am non religious and I have zero tolerance for any type of discrimination, racism, misogyny, sexism, homophobia and the likes.

I also don't smoke, I don't do drugs and I reject excessive drinking.

Now, as promised, the main event a.k.a.: Me.

Quick physical description: - 167 cm (5'4 ft) tall and white - curvy/thick/juicy/squishy/voluptuous - GORGEOUS long shiny brunette hair - mischievous brown eyes - stunning smile to light up your life - tattoos full of stories

In my daily life I am a strong and confident woman. I work a job with responsibility which includes selling the best cheesecake in the city (I will fight you on this!). I am a homebody and I created my personal sanctuary I love coming home to.

That includes my two cats. My tiny black panthers mean the world to me so you have to prepare to be a Cat Daddy too.

I have a life-long passion for books and stories, I enjoy being creative, I am a DIY Queen and I am spiritual. I love the universe and everything witchy, magical, mystical, outerwordly, darkish (NOT horror) and yes, I do have crystals at home.

I speak three languages, german, english and sarcasm. I think I am hilarious and while opinionated, I am open minded and I value open communication and healthy boundaries.

I care a lot about mental wellbeing, work life balance and taking time to recharge. I do my wellness regularly, hair, skin and nails and relaxation is a right, not a privilege (I will totally put a face mask on you!).

I am a very feeling person. I wear my emotions on my face and I am comfortable expressing them in whatever way needed. Romance makes my heart beat faster and I do believe that love can move mountains.

All of this is obviously only a glance into my persona, so lets move on to the next review.

Middle/Princess Me: I am not a little little, I am older and a combination of middle and princess.

I have a very playful side, I am bubbly and full of energy, very sassy and a smartass. I love to tease and to be cheeky but I would never be disrespectful or mean to the person that means the most to me.

I am also very sweet, soft and very cute (duh!). I need and want a lot of attention and praise. The knowledge that I am indeed the most precious to you in all that I am, is crucial to me.

Princess Me knows that life is way better with an attitude (and a crown 👑 ). You will roll your eyes but you will grin doing so. I am very endearing. Yes, yes.

Middle Me wants to know that when she reaches out, Daddys hand will meet hers halfway and keep her safe in every way, so she can let go and be all that she is. I need to feel that you are my Daddy, no matter how subtle.

Ok, deep breath Vulnerability check ✔️

Goofiness aside, I want and need a Daddy, not a Sir, not a Master.

I wish for both, a partnership as a couple and to create our very own dynamic in the way it fits our individual needs and wishes.

One mold does not fit all and I am not the type for a "traditional" D/s dynamic that includes tasks, chores, punishments and the likes.

I want you to be in charge/take charge, I wish to submit and to kneel, and there are certain "rules" I do wish to have established between us. Conversation is definitely better for understanding.

Important to know is, I have a subspace and a middlespace. So you having Caretaker traits is important. I am not into ABDL but I have a "younger" version in me that needs the right attention and understanding.

I need someone who is a balanced mixture of DaddyDom and PleasureDom. You want to learn everything about your sub so you can provide for all her needs, emotionally and sexually.

Someone good with words, the loving and the filthy kind (and the communicative kind).

You care to be her safe space and protecter and building a bond full of intimacy, trust and stability matters to you.

A strong respect for safewords, boundaries and limits, as well as seeing aftercare as a must are a part of your persona too.

Exclusivity plays a huge part for me and I only submit to my person because of who you are and not just because you happen to be a Dom. Calling you Daddy is precious to me. It is a promise and one day I want to be your wife and babygirl. A ring on my finger and one around my neck.

Until we reach that point or anything close, let's take it slow. Going from strangers to familiars takes time. The what's and how's of our potential connection will show themselves with time and effort.

So yeah, I am looking for a partner in life who will be my best friend, my teammate and my Dom. The goal is a healthy relationship and dynamic.

Soft to rough dominance with a firm and strong hand to remind me who I belong to and who keeps me safe.

I am a sexual person, I have a variety of kinks and sexual compatibility is important too. I am not comfortable sharing them here but I will gladly do so, early on, in private conversation.

You are in your late 30s to early 40s, you are experienced and secure in who you are and you have a mature, patient and calm demeanor.

Please like cats, that's very important to me, have the same wishes for a relationship, obviously, and you have to be attracted to curves/thicker girls.

If that sounds like you then let's talk and find out everything about each other that does not fit into a post like this.

I believe something beautifully intimate and special can be created between two people when both are willing to commit to building it. This is a lot of work but I have always been an all or nothing kind of person.

So lets be our authentic selfs and maybe my happiness is compatible with yours and then we can double it together. I would really like that.

Should you reach out then I am curious to know what about my post gave you the push to do so and please tell me about yourself, your dominant side and if you want, your kinks.

Feel free to send a SFW pic of you with your initial message. I will answer with one of mine should we connect.

We should both be mature enough to be respectfully honest, should we not be each others type. I am not an insecure person, different people are attracted to different people. Just be human.

I hope to meet you soon, Miri