Hi there, happy Saturday! I'm a submissive looking for a thoughtful dynamic and relationship with a dominant. I'm not all that experienced having just started exploring this about two years ago. Generally I guess I just want to feel useful, small, and taken care of in a relationship. I enjoy being on my knees. I enjoy being teased and teasing in kind. I'm most attracted to men who have a touch of that sadistic impulse, maybe engage in a little bullying especially for my own good, who are also intelligent, funny, creative, and kind at the end of the day. Hairy/bearded is a plus.

I am (basically) obedient but I also like to learn your needs and anticipate them. I like to be able to think up a good surprise that will please you. I like to make you laugh. I like some outside of the bedroom control to be exerted like wardrobe, scheduling, diet/fitness, wearing plugs. I am pretty into degradation/humiliation. Other kinks include body writing, kneeling and positions, anal, light to medium impact, bondage, rules and rituals. I love the feeling of security that comes from being owned, controlled, and watched over by my dominant. I'm interested in exploring intense scenes involving water sports, breath play, cages, electricity, forniphilia, and extreme restrictive bondage. My limits include scat, blood play, public nudity, age play, animals, and probably others tbd; rights reserved when it comes to limits. I'm resolved to be judicious with my submission. Until a relationship develops and we've met in person, you can safely assume my safe word is "no."

I'm 5'4", white cis female brunette with glasses, and I weigh about 175lbs. In my vanilla life, I enjoy painting, going to cultural activities like museums and shows and live theater (especially musicals!), reading sci fi and nonfiction, and I recently bought a nintendo switch so I've been playing zelda a lot. I'd like to get more into gardening and fitness--maybe you can provide that motivation. My friends would describe me as funny, kind, smart, silly/playful and maybe a little weird and a touch neurotic. I don't have any children but I would like them someday.

Please be willing to engage with some amount of parity in exchanging pictures both in terms of your physical appearance but also your day to day experience; please also be willing to talk on the phone, as I will definitely crave to hear your voice and see your face, 30-50 years old, single, located in the US, and interested in IRL. I am located in the southeast US and willing to both travel and relocate. (It's too hot on the gulf coast, and global warming, ya know?) I am not looking for online only and will not be your third or your side piece. #1 ho here.

I long for someone to look up to, to try and please, to worship in breathless adoration. I want to end with one of my favorite poems.

I cannot dance, O Lord,

Unless You lead me.

If You wish me to leap joyfully,

Let me see You dance and sing—

Then I will leap into Love—

And from Love into Knowledge,

And from Knowledge into the Harvest,

The sweetest Fruit beyond human sense.

There I will stay with You, whirling.

I hope to hear from you! Chat preferred over DMs. Thank you for your consideration.