I’m a 47 year old professional woman and experienced submissive looking for a sadistic daddy. I’m happily married and not looking for that to change. I’m average height and a little curvy, dark eyes, dark hair with some silver highlights. I love the DDlg dynamic, but I am not a little (no age regression, no baby talk, no diapers).

You’re an experienced dominant man between the ages of 40-62, located in either US central or eastern time zones. You’re married or in a committed, long term relationship and not looking for that to change. What you look like doesn’t particularly concern me, but… I do have a thing for dark or greying hair, dark eyes, beards, tattoos, and THICK cocks. (None of these are requirements, just putting it out there for the algorithm gods.)

You’re an experienced sadist and daddy; I’m an experienced pain slut. You’re into behavior modification and mental fuckery; I’m into light conditioning and being made to feel needy. You love being a daddy and making sure your good girl remembers who’s in charge; I love being a good girl for my daddy… most of the time. You want to have fun with a dynamic and you don’t take yourself too seriously; I like to tease and I can be sassy, but I’m never disrespectful. We both have busy lives and very little time for complicated rules and protocols.

You appreciate the responsibility of the gift I’m giving you; we both take consent seriously.

Because we’re both in committed relationships with other people, and neither of us is looking to blow up our lives, we’re seeking this connection online only.

You must be willing to verify at some point before we engage in serious play; I will do the same.

I want to get to know you. Your experiences, your life, what makes you happy, and what turns you on. Connection is key.

Maybe it goes somewhere… or maybe we just stay friends. Either way, hit me up with your age, location, and tell me about your experience as a dominant and sadist, both in person and online.

(As a reminder, Reddit chat is terrible so if you don’t hear back from me right away, please be patient.)