Hey,

I have posted something here before but unfortunatly most of the replys were not serious at all, receiving messages with only one word, people who contact me and then stop talking, ... still hope I can find someone serious. But please if you are not serious do not contact me.

Who I am: I am a 35 year old man. I am married, but she is not involved.

Physically I don't think I'm bad looking. I could say I'm an average dad-bod, 5'8 225, kind of chubby muscular. No tattoos or piercings. I'm just a normal looking white guy.

My confession: I'm really nervous about this. I could never go out and find someone, im too shy/nervous for anyone to find out my kink.

I have a strang need to feel submissive. To have an owner who decides for me, who controls me, who uses me. The feeling of not being able to make decisions myself anymore, but giving that power to them.

I have kinks and fantasies about having someone control me all the time, and who givs me rules and tasks, things that make me feel embarrassed and vulnerable. Could be that someone is able to call upon me at any time, and id have to sneak away from where i was and complete my assignments or face punishment. This is just one example.

I seek someone who is a real dominant, who has experience, who understands what i need, and who is able and willing to guide me and train me.

I don't seek normal sex or soft things. I have a long list of kinks that include some of the following: orgasm denial, ruined, cum eating, cbt, foot worship, crossdressing, toys and ass play, humiliation, exhibionsim, etc. ... i love being asked intimate questons and answering naughty questions about my sex life.

I would like to start the conversation on reddit and take it from there maybe to another platform thats easier.

If you have any questions please ask.

If you think we could be a match, please contact me.

Id like to veify you are real upon when we start chatting too.

Thanks