First, I need someone that is intelligent and communicates extremely well. We need to form some kind of connection, have some chemistry to build up from. Get to know me and tell me all about yourself, I’ll be throughly engaged.

Must ultimately be looking for me to relocate and be live in. Need to have your life together and be able to support another person.

As with anything there are exceptions but below is an idea of who might fit me best. Obviously if you aren’t exactly what I’ve listed but you think we might work out well, still message.

A little bit older or slightly younger but overall close to my age.

Childfree.

Bonus if you are outside of the states.

Must like a bit of extra fat. Not looking for someone not into it or just ok with it. Want you to love what I have; how I look, don’t want to have to pose a certain way to minimize fat being seen. I’m not huge but I’m not at all skinny slim thin or petite. I have fat.

I’m on the taller side, I don’t discriminate on height but I much prefer a man that is taller, bigger and stronger than me, I love being wrapped up in your arms and being manhandled.

Whatever your body type is I can be ok with it but what I prefer is a dad bod, abs don’t do anything for me.

I’m looking for a caucasian straight male. I’m not poly or into ENM. We can discuss sharing me but I’ll be your only partner.

I have boundaries especially starting off with a stranger online, so no I won’t be telling you my name yet or the like. Be respectful and don’t push.

This is my first time posting and I’m sure I’m forgetting to mention some things so I’ll be editing and adding on further as I think of them. But please feel free to ask me anything you’d like to know, nothing ever off limits I just might choose not to answer certain questions yet but no harm asking whatever you want. Questions help you better understand me, especially since I haven’t really said much about myself.

I’m open to a lot within reason, tell me all the things you want and I’ll let you know what I’m willing to do. I rather hear your kinks first.

Edit: yeah, please put effort in your initial message, nothing about a few words is going to make me want to accept your chat request