As the title suggest I am looking for those sub who have a deep need and craving for service, control, structure and depravity but are completely unfulfilled in their daily lives. Whether it be a dead bedroom, your partner doesn’t understand or is unwilling, you have just not been able to connect with anyone in your area, or your job and professional/personal life keep you from exploring. I want to be that secret oasis you escape to for your depraved needs. I host a very wide array of kinks all based strictly on my subs needs. -Do you crave letting go of all control because you are the alpha at work. Well good I love TPE control and orgasm control and denial taking away all decision from you. -Have you always wanted to explore pain in relation to pleasure well allow me to guide you through an impact play session. -Does something about being objectified for parts of your body make you tingle then let me find out what part that is is use you for it. -Does something about being called degrading names or forced to do humiliating things turn you on. If so let’s chat slut 😉 -Maybe you just need some accountability, over your diet, exercise, daily tasks and routines to get you in track. I can do that as well.

So about me I’m a 32 YO male dom who’s been in the lifestyle for over 10 years having had both online and IRL subs with experiences in ranging from vanilla to the extreme and everything in between.

Professionally I am a firefighter and paramedic so I can take care of you as well as use, abuse and torture you. I love my job it’s chaotic which is something I need in my work and it allows me the control I crave.

I would definitely describe myself as a man’s man, athletic build, and conventionally attractive with a great smile! I’m 5’8” with tan skin, black hair and brown eyes and your pic gets mine!

In my free time I love working out, love being outdoors and run and lift quite a bit. I spend time watching tv, playing games and working with my hands most other times.

I have a long list of kinks that I will list below and more that I probably missed. But again none are exclusive meaning that only the ones that interest you are important to me. I want to give you a personalized kink experience to help you fulfill that nagging emptiness.

Kinks include but are not limited to, Chastity, edging, orgasm denial, humiliation, degradation, gaslighting, free use, breast and nipple torture, impact play, pain, pussy and clit torture, anal, stretching and gaping, TPE, use, abuse, control, CNC, choking, slapping, spanking.

I like the idea of not just focusing on kinks but each other, our lives, likes, dislikes, opinions and anything else as I feel it deepens that connection!

I’d love to create an obsessive, intense connection with someone. Hope to chat soon!