If you’re in a committed relationship, including being poly, ENM, or seeking a throuple, we’re not a match. Please don’t bother.

I’d love to know about you, how you describe yourself, and what kind of scene(s) or dynamic(s) you’re looking for. My kinks and hard limits are below.

Kinks: ass play, anal, struggle fucking, rough fucking, praise, deepthoating, cock worship, bedroom power exchange, control, domination, nipple play, extended use/free use, fingering/teasing, direct orders, sexting, dirty talk.

Hard limits: anything illegal, permanent, or physically dangerous; play involving scat, piss, vomit, blood; pet play; ddlg dynamics; anal gapping/fisting; breath play or choking; ABF/milking; feet stuff; face slapping.

I’m cis/white/straight, and 5’8 with a body type like America Ferrera. What the gods didn’t give me in boobs, they gave me in ass. I’ve had two children and my body looks it, but I’m working on it. (If you want to help me work on it, I won’t mind 😉) I am clean, drug free, will provide an STI test (and would like one from you before we have sex), and had a bi-salp following my last pregnancy. I tend to dress in a classic, conservative style, but love wearing something slutty underneath.

I’m intelligent, creative, a bit sarcastic, kind, generous, and usually upbeat. I’m a Capricorn (if you believe in those things) with an INFJ personality type (if you believe in those things). I love trying and experiencing new things, traveling, goofing around.

I’m politically liberal. If you’re a Republican, our values simply don’t align.

I’m mentally, emotionally, and financially stable. I hold a senior leadership position at work, I’m a single mom, I own my own home. In every aspect of my life, I’m in control, leading or managing it.

So, the psychology behind what I’m looking for in a IRL partner—whether casual or serious—is simple and straightforward. I need the bedroom to be a place where I am not in charge, or in control, or taking the lead. I deeply want to be wanted. I want to be fucked.

I want you to be physically stronger and bigger than I am; confident, fully capable, extroverted. I want an emotionally and mentally intelligent, aggressively, confidently, dominant male partner, with a high sex drive.

Please communicate well. I like talking, in bed and out. I value honesty and straight-forward, direct conversations that come from a place of curiosity and respect rather than assumptions.

Ideally, you’re a straight/hetero/cis man who is 6’0 or taller, in good shape, broad and heavy instead of slim/skinny. Age wise, I’m only willing to date my age or older (39-45).

I usually connect with white men, but who you are as a person is so very, very much more important to me than your race. Military or LEO background is a plus, simply because I understand that world, but by no means is it a requirement. I would prefer someone local to the DMV and able to host. I won’t host unless we’re in an established LTR.

I’d like you to date me, please. I’m not picky about food, entrainment or what we’re doing, so long as I am spending time with you. I’d like to be able to talk to you—joke around, chat about our day, debate, share and learn about the things that we care about, that make us who we are.

Having the mental connection of knowing who you are and trusting that you know me will make the sex so much better.

I’m relatively new to this world, but confident in the core baseline of what I’m looking for. Want to know more? I’m a chat away.