My goal in life is to be an okay person. I try to do as little harm to others as I can, with some kindness and compassion sprinkled in when I have some to spare. As a partner I offer patience, adventure, chaos, and emotional maturity. A clingy, needy, independent kitten. I’ll take as much time as my partner is willing to give, but it’s also important to have our own interests. Gotta be whole people in ourselves, y’know?

As the kids would say (I think?) I’m a whole ass vibe. Dark, dry humor. Living in the moment. When I’m with you I’m with you. Forget the rest of the world, tell me about something you’re passionate about. About your day, what keeps you up at night. Your dreams for the future. I enjoy my own company and don’t need another person, but experiencing life through the eyes of someone you care about adds a whole ‘nother level of zest. I want a partner that can match that. That possesses a quiet confidence gained from experience and self-awareness.

An acquaintance loves the phrase “play brat games, get brat prizes” and I crave someone who can bring that energy and pull me off balance. This kitten loves not landing on her feet. The mental sparring with someone with a sharp wit is intoxicating and something that always leaves me craving my Dominant. Looking for a life partner, not sumfuk. For my match.

Although I’m an insatiable sex gremlin, it won’t be with someone I just met. My dynamic style is fluid. Not quite 24/7, because who has the mental capacity for that, but always ready to snap into place when we’re in the mood.

Instead of a dick pic how about you introduce yourself by sharing your top values? Why are they your values? How do you incorporate them into your life?

Before I forget - I’m open to online to start, but would eventually want to move offline if we click. However, my interests lean towards slightly older men rather than 20-somethings. I’d like to be more involved in the lifestyle than I am, and so a partner with lifestyle experience/comfort would be best.