Hi dear community!

30F, European, and currently live in Manhattan. I‘m 5‘3, curvy/chubby, light brown hair and hazel eyes. I speak five languages and am sarcastic in each of them. Don’t worry, English surely isn’t the worst. In my free time, I enjoy walking around the city, discovering new coffee shops and book stores, playing video games (BG3 anyone?). My job requires me to be pretty flexible, so I will be relocating elsewhere by autumn. I‘m pretty proud of the fact that I am a responsible and independent woman.

I have, however, recently found myself wanting to venture further, wishing that my partners were more dominant. I want to relinquish more control when it comes intimacy. I have not had the chance to explore a lot kinks before so this would be yours to introduce me to your favourites. I’ve enjoyed sensation play, impact play and light bondage so far. Limits straight away are degradation, permanent damage, blood. What currently resonates with me the most is the concept of a soft dom, with lots of praise and who knows how to deal with my bratty side gently.

I‘m looking for somebody ideally between 30 and 40 years old. Please be disease-free and, please, single. I don‘t think I will well be suited to somebody who is new to all of this himself, so you should have some experience you can share with me. I adore eloquent men. Please send me a coherent message if this speaks to you.

Ideally, this would be consistent. I can‘t give you long term and I doubt I will fully build enough trust to explore this territory with you if it is just a one-time thing. I‘m a cautious and private person so I‘m afraid my trust will have to be earned. maybe I will get lucky here - I‘m looking forward to hearing from you.