This is about to be long yall 🤭

I am a 34yo woman with zero experience with virtual dynamics seeking a Dom who's up for exploring that with me. I'm in the northern Caribbean and open to you visiting, if you are available to travel.

I can offer a part-time commitment as I'm a mom of 1 (50% custody) and have 1 FWB at the moment. IRL that means I'm available for: - ~2hrs of voice call/video/uninterrupted texting up to 2x/week - check in/some kind of contact ~every other day - I dont typically respond right away. We can agree on a rule about how quickly you need me to respond if you deem something urgent

I tend to yearn for frequent contact with a Dom who welcomes, rather than just tolerates, my bratting and lg preferences, especually within the first few months of meeting. We can also discuss what your boundaries are around handling NRE.

I'm fairly assertive, outgoing and organized in person and as a brat. My favourite kinks include being slapped, verbal degradation, spitting, praise, choking and the adrenaline rush/fear/anticipation of being punished... There's so much peace after I've done wrong and it's been absolved with punishment and Dom has restored order and everything is right with the world again

I really enjoy punishments that are just a twist on how we usually engage in our play. As a sub I'm hypersensitive to my Dom's tone and reactions so being called a useless whore in an angry and disapproving tone when I've broken a rule (vs as degradation during sexual play), or being forced to orgasm for Daddy because I've been naughty (vs forced to cum till I drop from pleasure) are pretty serious and effective punishments in my book.

Nevertheless, I'm open to trying out other commin or creative punishments for rule breaking cuz ya girl is down to learn.

My current fantasy is being locked away in a dark room for the weekend with no awareness of time, to be used at my Dom's pleasure - free use, degradation, shibari, impact play, getting and leaving my face all messy while I keep getting fucked...

I don't really feel like I have any goals or achievements I need help with, or specific guidance I want to receive. I'm generally happy with my life and my job. I do thrive on meaningful (reciprocal) conversation and I'm open to some emotional support eg one of us is having a hard time and we agree to commit 30mins of safe space for advice-free venting.

I understand you'll have to kick ass with the vulnerability, care and emotional availability as a Dom, especially for aftercare. I try to make that easier for everyone by trying to be as specific as possible when asking for emotional care and attention. I'd prefer a Dom who's willing to ask for aftercare when they need it too, and talk about what was hard or uncomfortable for them as well.

I'm black, small mom bod, 5' 2", 130lbs, not very active although I lovee outdoor activities. I do therapy every now and then, and I love therapy-related podcasts etc so I'm always investing in some kind of self-care. I smoke weed to chill, drink socially and love artsy-type events. I'm fascinated by true crime, and not big on news, politics or social media in general. Clue me in on your entertainment preferences when you first say hello.

Some of my Kinks: slapping, spanking, choking, spitting, collaring, mild pet play, degradation, deepthroat, orgasm control, free use, kneeling,

Some of my limits: scat, puking, Knife play/blood/wounds, fisting,

•Preferred age range: 34 - 45. I have relatively high expectations around emotional maturity, communication and conflict resolution, while also recognizing I'd likely be perceived as immature to someone old enough to be my father

•Preferred type: dad bod or semi-fit, bald or short hair, no height preferences. Please expect to exchange pics (or dating app profile links) within the first week or two of chatting.

•Availability: It would probably be most practical if you too are in a (ENM/CNM) relationship. I'm concerned I'd be kicked to the curb once you find a partner or I may not be able to meet your expectations around availability if you're single.

•Nudes/Nudity: I'll admit that I'm very wary about sharing nudes; and my face in a nude pic definitely aint happening. We'll have to negotiate how we'll navigate this aspect of the dynamic.

Chat with you soon. Toodles!