Despite the number of posts from Doms, none have quite resonated with what I’m looking for.
I’m looking for someone dominant, gentle, patient, and 30 . Preferably in EST OR CST. I want to get to know you a bit before anything else happens. I want to be friends, not just Dom and sub. This would be online only (preferably through telegram).
I’ve been interested in the idea of a D/s relationship for years, and I’ve talked to some Doms about it online, read endless Reddit posts, etc., but nothing that has really lasted very long.
Challenges:
I don’t have much privacy. I’m married with little kids. This would involve a lot of sneaking around.
I’m very hesitant about sending pics/videos. With time and trust, I’ll agree to SFW pics. The right person might be able to work me up to something nsfw, but full nudes are a hard limit, even without my face.
I’m a bbw. That isn’t for everyone.
Other hard limits include all of the “usual” more extreme kinks (blood, scat, etc.), anything anal, and anything that would get me in trouble with work or family.
I don’t really know what kinks I have or what my other limits are. Doing things myself is much different than reading about and watching other people do them. I’m interested in exploring.
I prefer Reddit chat for now, but I’ll respond to DMs too.
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