In no particular order.. you are present, communicative, thoughtful, romantic, honest, sweet, kind, active, over 5’10”, muscular, fit, health and fitness aware and conscious, adventurous, hard-working, confident, stable, accepting, perceptive, observant, chill, encouraging, proactive, natural “alpha” - not “asshole”, maybe experienced in something like first response or piloting or military, forward, experienced Dom, capable and experienced in all manner of life skills, shared experience of living rurally, shared experience in and love of love of DIY/trades, ready to connect earnestly and openly about your life emotions goals desires kinks and limits, driven, successful, nurturing, appreciative, affirming, praising, dominant, direct, open, in touch, empathetic, curious, affectionate, loving, caring, nurturing, protective, possessive, respectful, love when I call you Daddy and recognize, appreciate and praise me when I give myself to you in any and all small or big ways.

You are enthusiastically attracted to a curvy fit strong independent woman, and can sense and intuitively satisfy how badly she needs a strong safe assertive man.

You want to give and receive intense intimacy and pleasure, in that order.

You have routines and hobbies and interests that bring you peace, joy and fulfillment and you are eager to share those interests and routines with your lover.

You are experienced in and enjoy many safe sane and consensual kinks.

You are in no way interested in subjecting me to degradation, humiliation or sadism, extreme stretching and also not gore, watersports or scat or age play.

You earnestly live the belief (without resentment) that if it’s not fun for both of us, it’s not fun for you.

You don’t expect what you haven’t earned. You know how to build and protect our mutual trust.

You provide and accept attentive, loving, affectionate, praising aftercare without prompting, hesitation or rush.

You don’t play games, you don’t breadcrumb, you don’t gaslight, you aren’t passive.

Don’t waste our time messaging me if you can’t or won’t do or be any of these. The right dynamic for me is a fully reciprocal, mindful, loving, protective and possessive connection.

I don’t mind your current relationship status.