You should state up front the kind of dynamic and interaction you like. If you want the rough treatment up front, that’s fine, but you have to ask for it. Normal people aren’t like us, but that’s ok.
I tend to be direct. I like what I like and I want what I want. I need a sub that appreciates that. You can’t second guess everything I say, accepting that what I ask you to do and improve is meant to help you grow and improve to what I want. There’s no way you could know what I want without being told or trained to do it.
That being said, I will take time to get to know you and find out your needs and wants as well. That’s an important part of a dynamic. The goal is for our needs and wants to align so that it’s natural.
Some subs will have a hard time because they expect to be good/perfect right from the start. That’s not how it works. A dynamic involves growth to become something better.
Kinks. Pain play, orgasm control/denial, overstimulation, anal, crying, blowjobs, training, mindfuckery, humiliation, body writing, daily tasks, training, bimbofication/dress up, exhibitionist, long term goals.
To expand on those a bit. My sadist side isn’t about how much pain you can take, but enjoying the pain you’re experiencing. The lower you tolerance the better, it means there’s more room to push and more reactions to enjoy. I like to combine this with pleasure to really fuck with your head and enhance the experience.
I enjoy orgasms, so true denial isn’t what I’m looking for. But I do enjoy taking things away and making you think you’re going to get an orgasm and then saying no.
Daily tasks are expected for you to show devotion, improvement, and slowly inch towards your goals.
You should enjoy showing off. Ideally for me at least, a personal pornstar basically. I like to direct. Makeup, outfits, position, lighting. I would love an OF submissive, but that might be asking too much. If that interests you though, you found the right guy to talk to. (I’ve worked with a few before)
Pics and things can take time to build up to. I don’t mind establishing a relationship.
You should live alone or have the freedom to do what I want. You’ll be expected to make noise… from screams to moans.
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What I’m looking for.
Age: I’m open to age ranges if you match the other criteria. I’m open to this because younger sounds fun, but around 30 would be preferable.
Body: Petite, thin, average, maybe a bit heavier. I don’t mind some jiggle.
Bonus traits: Not from the US. Although I’m open to all, I enjoy foreign girls.
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