At this time I am seeking local only. I am not interested in online only play.

Low effort messages will be ignored. Do not message me without reading this fully, and putting forth effort with your message. I will respond to all messages that put forth a respectful amount of effort, even if I’m not interested.

A Bit About Me: I’m your fairly average woman in her thirties just trying to navigate life. I have the classic M-F office job. Love my cats, and enjoy spending time with my friends.
I love to do all sorts of activities - day trips, weekend getaways, museums, a paint class, bowling terribly, and embarrassing myself at the arcade. …Unless it’s air hockey, because then it’ll be you that gets embarrassed 😉
I also like to spend a lot of time in my PJs scrolling for far too long on TikTok. It’s about balance, ya know? I do always like to make it known I am plus size. I wear a size 26/28 and I’m around 350lbs.

When it comes to kink, I am submissive. I’ve know this about myself for about 15 years. I’m a bit of a brat. I love to push buttons, find loopholes and throw out quick witted comebacks. I would love to find someone who can roll with the punches, and rein me in, just the right way. 😏 While I do enjoy being a brat, I always do my best to keep it respectful, and within reason. When I trust someone enough to be vulnerable I may also show them my “little side” but that can take a while. Please note, for me, little space is never sexual. I adore cuddles, head pats and having a good story read to me. When comfortable with someone, I often slip into little space with aftercare.

Favorite kinks: DDLG (non sexual in little space), CNC, teasing/edging, fisting/large toys/stretching
Other enjoyed kinks: spitting, choking, impact play, gags, restraints, humiliation, face slapping
Curious About: breeding kink, breath play, face fucking, figging
Limits: sexual little space, permanent marks, appearance modifications, scat, water-sports, blood, body shaming, public play, the secret word is unicorn

Seeking: An experienced Dominant male who can host , and is between 30-45ish, for regular play sessions. I am looking for someone who understands the importance of safety and limits, and understands that while kink is very fun, it’s more than just fun to me. It’s something I really need, to feel fulfilled in life. I’m hoping to find someone who feels similar.

I find that I jive well with Daddy Dom types. Someone who can have fun and be playful, but will also hold me accountable when needed. I enjoy having tasks and rules. I wouldn’t label myself a service submissive, but I really do enjoy pleasing and doing things for my Dominant to help make him happy.

I’ll be honest, I’m still trying to navigate what exactly I’m seeking as far as a relationship. I’ve been single a while, and this is my first step back out there. Ultimately, I would love to find a partner to have a meaningful relationship at some point. I just don’t know exactly when that point may be. It could be in a few months for the right person, or it may be a bit longer. My intention is to be clear and communicate as I navigate this process.
I have quite a few things in life that are up in the air, and admittedly I don’t think I have the bandwidth to give someone what they deserve in a relationship at the moment.
I can say I definitely don’t want random one night stands and flings. I would like to talk, build a friendship, and take things slowly. A lot of trust goes into BDSM and it’s not something I’m looking to do with just anyone.
While I love to be told I’m a whore, I don’t actually want to be treated like a set of holes and discarded …if you catch my drift.

If my personal interests you, please send me a message, and to show you’ve read my personal, tell me the secret word hidden within this post. A well thought out message is preferred; I likely won’t respond to low effort messages.

Thanks!