I love the sensations our bodies are capable of experiencing. I love the pleasures and the pains and joys and sadnesses of life, and how they're all required and how they blend and make up our existence. I love the anticipations and delights our minds create for us. I love how this paragraph works as well for romance and bedroom play as the rest of life itself.

I love the intimacy of kinky play, where the tenderness (or loving roughness) of a hand on a throat (or my balls) runs headlong into primal responses. We feel the fight or flight but give in and submit, trusting. I love the eroticism and the aesthetic of ropes, cuffs, and a heavy leather flogger. I love the feeling of surrender.

I'm also a normal person, with a normal life, who must live in this normal world, with its ups and downs and responsibilities. I want to share the experience of being me with you, and share the experience of being you with you as well. And I want to share my mind and heart and bed with someone who is turned on by the things that turn me on. What else turns me on? All sorts of fun things, among them bondage, impact play, orgasm control and denial, chastity, facesitting, pegging, plugs and toys. Just a smattering a smattering in case something catches your eye!

I'm introverted, rational, also irrational, scientific, also spiritual, philosophical, liberal, compassionate, kind, and generous. I read fantasy, science fiction, poetry, and nonfiction books on philosophy, buddhism, magick, and the supernatural. I'm divorced and have school aged children. I work out 3-5 times a week and try to eat healthily. I'm not a model but I'm thin/fit. I work in software and am pursuing a graduate degree, which means I stare at a screen entirely too much.

Physically I'm 5'10", 163 lbs /- a few depending, white, 6.5" cut cock, with natural pubic hair. I'm happy to share photos and voice messages and videos once we chat a little bit.

I'd love to meet someone from Charlottesville, Richmond, Washington DC, Harrisonburg, Staunton, northern NC, or surrounding areas: someone in driving distance from me. I'm looking for real life connection, leading to a real relationship. That said — if you're not local but want to chat because something struck your fancy, I won't say no to some friendly conversation, and who knows where things will take us.