This is going to be a long shot, but as there’s so many more people (or bots) here now I figure being more specific may help.

To know me first, I’m 36, 6ft, and about 150 pounds living in the US. I work in tech and a hardcore nerd (Minecraft, anime, antasy, sc-fi, whatever. You name it, if it’s nerdy I’m probably blu into it or interested. I don’t like to brag but I’m a pretty smart cookie lol, I enjoy learning new things as it’s almost an obsession.

I tend to be direct. I like what I like and I want what I want. I need a sub that enjoys that. You can’t second guess everything I say, accepting that what I ask you to do and improve is meant to help you grow and improve to what I want. There’s no way you could know what I want without being told or trained to do it.

Some subs will have a hard time because they expect to be good/perfect right from the start. That’s not how it works. A dynamic involves growth to become something better.

Kinks. Painslut, orgasm control/denial, overstimulation, anal, crying, blowjobs, training, mindfuckery, humiliation, body writing, daily tasks, training, bimbofication/dress up, exhibitionist, long term goals.

To expand on those a bit. Pain isn’t about how much pain you can take, but enjoying the pain you’re experiencing. Let lower you tolerance the better, it means there’s more room to push. I like to combine this with pleasure to really fuck with your head and experience.

I enjoy orgasms, so true denial isn’t what I’m looking for. But I do enjoy taking things away and making you think you’re going to get an orgasm and then saying no.

Daily tasks are expected for you to show devotion, improvement, and slowly inch towards your goals.

You should enjoy showing off. Ideally for me at least, a personal pornstar basically. I like to direct. Makeup, outfits, position, lighting. I would love an OF submissive, but that might be asking too much. If that interests you though, you found the right guy to talk to.

Pics and things can take time to build up to. I don’t mine establishing a relationship.

You should live alone or have the freedom do what you want. However ideally you’ll be required to make noise, from screams to moans.

Having toys would be a bonus. If you don’t, you should be able to buy a few key toys.

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Details about you.

Age: I’m open to age ranges if you match the other criteria. No older than 40. I’m open to this because younger sounds fun, but my favorite previous subs have been 30-40.

Body: Petite, thin, average, maybe a bit curvy. Probably around 100-130 ponds. Maybe up to 160 depending.

Shorter girls usually get my attention.

Other traits: European, New Zealand, Pakistani, Irish, Italian, Other non American. Although I’m open to American, I have a soft spot for foreigners lol. (Not specifically into race play but I could lean into it)