By experienced, I don’t mean body count. The lower the better. I pride myself on being healthy and a dirty cock is not something I want shoved down the back of my throat. My count is 2. Ever. That being said, I absolutely know what I need. First and foremost, I need the mental aspect of a D/s dynamic - you need a firm hand, you need to be strict, and you need to know how to grab a brat by the hair and make her kneel, even if it’s just with your words online. I am lost without a dom and I fucking need this in my life more than I need the air in this room. My pussy will not get wet for a random redditor who hasn’t taken the time to make me his. I’m looking for my forever sir, hookups are not my jam.

You need to be 35 , stronger than me both physically and mentally, and you need to know how to spell. You need to know what aftercare is. You cannot use humiliating words with me, give me the silent treatment, abandon me, or anything permanent/illegal.

You can however, lock me in chastity and spank my ass purple for running my mouth.

You need to be available to me throughout the day and even if you’re married, evenings and weekends too, although obviously not as often. Family and opsec come first, always, but I’m a needy brat and will shrivel up and die without attention from you. As my dom, you will want to check on me.

My kinks are subspace, rules, discipline, and structure. If you’re looking for a slave or a doormat, please don’t waste our time.

I’m in a dead bedroom marriage with a narcissistic vanilla man who will never see the marks you leave on me. And if we meet irl, you will be the only man in my holes, because you and only you will own them. I pride myself on taking care of my body; this means the man who owns me does too, and is DDF and not sticking his cock in random places it doesn’t belong.

Send me a chat on here and if you pass my subconscious shit tests (I will be weeding lots of you out, send me a dick pic or call me a slut to be instantly blocked) we can move to telegram. I don’t have snap, I’m not 12, and tg is all I can use. If you don’t have it or don’t want to get it, we can’t move forward. I don’t want your phone number or your discord or whatsapp. Just telegram. Once established, I’m very much into you controlling all of me, TPE is hot as fuck. This means if you want video, you get video.

Send me your age, name, location, whether or not you are married (your opsec needs to be on point, please feel free to explain yours to me), what your favorite submissive position is (the actual name, not a description of it), and whether or not you think the moon landing was faked.

Heads up, I don’t share. I can deal with a wife, but not multiple subs. Also, lies are an instant dealbreaker. Been there, done that.