Hi.

I’m married and not sure I want to be, frankly. I don’t mind if you are or not. I don’t really want to talk about it beyond that for now, so you’ll have to decide if that’s okay with you.

I am dying to connect with an older/mature man with life experience who can empathize and connect on the harder aspects of life (trauma, grief, loss, disappointment, longings, loneliness, the grind that life seems to require, health struggles), to delight in the finer aspects of life with, and build the emotional connection and intellectual and sexual stimulation I’m desperate for.

The outdoors, health and fitness, diy and craft are my passions. I love all manner of outdoor adventure, love to workout in my home gym, have a regular yoga practice… I’m a home owner and work hard on home renovations, various projects, maintaining my own vehicle, woodworking, gear making, ceramics, gardening, eventually I want to raise small and maybe large livestock. I love to work with my dog, forever working with the damn sweet dog. I am working hard at getting better at playing pool. I love music of all kinds, especially live. I enjoy watching live sports even if I don’t know what’s going on most of the time. I’m a good shot with my handgun and I love a strong whiskey drink and a fat joint. Right now I’m not always the best at feeding myself on the day to day though I love to cook, especially for others, and love to indulge in culinary and alcohol-related delights.

I have tons of goals and never enough time to do it all. I’m not good at everything but good at a lot of things and always striving to learn and grow.

I have a successful career in a male dominated field that I am dying to get out of as soon as I can. Thankfully WFH. My dream is to be self-supporting with my crafts and skills - teaching and mentoring and coaching others and working on my own schedule.

I crave someone I can look up to, respect, connect and learn with in all aspects of life with - I’d love for you to be emotionally available, intuitive and present, patient and self-possessed, outdoorsy and into fitness, handy, entrepreneurial is a huge bonus, willing and able to connect with and maybe even mentor me in things mundane and kink-related. I’m looking for someone I can let go with and learn from, someone who takes initiative and can take control when needed.

Sexually, I am high drive and under fulfilled. I have a kinky past and kinky longings and am currently leading a very emotionally lonely vanilla life.

I’m interested in a multifaceted relationship and wanting to explore a daddy dom dynamic generally and sexually, I’d love to be able to let my walls down and feel supported to be myself in all ways, though especially in my sexual desires. I’m a good girl and want you to know it and tell me so and reward me, I can be a bit bratty, but only because I like to feel and can handle rough edges and want to explore with you.

Bondage, impact play, edging, oral, light choking, hair pulling, praise and cnc, are a few of my known kinks, though I’m open to discussing/trying most but the darkest/most intense flavors of what I know of the bdsm spectrum… known hard limits for me so far are bodily fluids (aside from cum), age regression, animal-related, permanent marring, pregnancy.

If you got this far and want to reach out - thank you! Can you give me a similar intro, what are you looking for, what are your passions, sexual and non, what drink would you order if we met at a bar, what song should I listen to and associate with you right now, what makes you happy in life and in relationships, and what spurred you to reply?

A physical description of you gets one of me, I don’t want to dive in with photos but I am open to sharing when the time feels right.

Thanks for reading and happy searching.

xo