I’m seeking a Dominant with masculine energy and kink experience. I’ve spent quite some time alone and without an outlet for play or sex and I would like to change that. I am a versatile submissive with lots of experience with many different types of play. I do not identify as a masochist but that doesn’t mean pain is a no-go. I am well-versed in thorough negotiation and I’m certain we can cover all the bases before we jump into playing.

With that said, I am not seeking a casual arrangement. I would like to find someone with consistent time and energy for more than just play. I would like to connect as romantic and sexual partners as well.

I am into BDSM because it turns me on, however I am also interested in play outside of sex. It’s a big ole jumble in my head right now but the best way I can describe it is the desire for kinky play scenes that lead to really hot sex that perpetuates the connection we created during the scene.

I’m also interested in exploring a DD/mg dynamic. I have a middle side, not a little side. We can discuss specifics about this as we get to know each other.

Please be upfront and honest with me about current relationships, experience level, boundaries, and health. You can expect the same from me.

In the regular world I work in higher education, I live alone with two cats, I have a Master’s degree in Education, and I enjoy movies and crafting in my spare time. I travel several hours to see my friends at least once a month so driving a couple hours is not a deterrent for me.

I enjoy chatting throughout the day about life, work, fantasies, likes, dislikes, anything really. Communication is big for me: you can expect a good morning each day and a goodnight each evening.

I am not seeking an online relationship: my primary receiving love language is physical touch so purely online situations do not fulfill that need for me. I don’t mind distance but we must be working toward being able to see each other in person regularly.

I look forward to hearing from you. Feel free to ask anything you’d like to know, I’m not shy.