Looking For:
-Single, straight, highly experienced, confident Dom
-Male (born male)
-Age range: 38-50 (some wiggle room)
-A Dom I am attracted to physically, mentally, and kinks align
-Height: taller than me

-Shape/health: Don’t have to be a crazy fit pro athlete working out every day but please take great care of yourself the best you can. I am attracted to people who prioritize their appearance (overall health, exercise, and diet) and show determination, self-discipline, and motivation.
-Preferably a monogamous dynamic. I can be a hand full ;)
-Creative, emotionally mature and has emotional intelligence, educated, explorer, always learning, knows proper grammar, can hold a conversation, can make me laugh.
-A progressive, inclusive human who believes in science, facts, medicine, and respect.

Kinks:

This part of my life is private and discreet. Gentleman and lady in the streets, freak in the sheets type relationship.
I like the feeling of a good pair of strong, rough (but manicured) man hands on me.
Some discreet public play, private humiliation and degradation (done right), dirty talk, teasing, begging, voice audios, lite biting, bondage, restraint, orgasm control/denial/ruin/edge, elements of TPE, pain from impact play and spanking, chemical play (some oils), toys, fun to be in a bday suit but I also love lingerie in play.

I like control in elements of my life but not all of it. I need to function and be discreet in my personal public life.

*Daddy Dom/Sir/sub play: its a word thing to me. I don’t really get into the role of lg young-age-wise or dress up wise. I am attracted to the protector-looking-after-me role, making sure I stay disciplined in my day to day or in play sessions. Hope that makes sense. Sometimes I can be more sassy, cheeky or sarcastic to be funny or tease that could be lightly defined as bratty.
I like hearing the words like: daddy, sir, good girl, princess, baby girl, good little f-toy.

Aftercare- it is very important to me to talk about what we liked/disliked from a play sesh, connect, decompress and make sure everyone is good.

Limits/ Dealbreakers:
Nothing illegal. Usually items on the more extreme end do nothing for me.
No drugs, scarring, scat, blood, water play, torture, electricity, animals, cages, needles, fire, watersports, being shared with strangers.
No felons.
History:
-Close to 2 years in practicing kink life with 2 Doms. One was great. The 2nd one didn’t pan out for the long term as he did not have proper time management skills. I do not like my time wasted.
-I still consider myself young in learning this world and my hard/soft limits. I do have some items/limits figured out listed below. There are limits out there that I am sure I am not aware of.
If something is not listed that you may be interested in, let’s discuss it.

General:
Me: Beautiful, playful, and real. I am told I am a great muse.

Age: 43, Female (born female), Blonde hair, Blue eyes, 5’5’’, 36DD, not crazy fit but I prioritize my exercise and diet so I am healthy.
College educated, well traveled, intelligent, witty, playful, fan of laughter, explorer, progressive, inclusive human, believes in science, facts, and medicine. Non-smoker outside of cannabis.
Not into hard drugs. Sometimes I drink alcohol (for celebrations or socially).

Vanilla likes:
Travel, art, design, fashion, tech, music, movies, all things culinary, reading, gaming and board games, croquet, F1 fan, space, oceans/aquariums, horticulture, maps, murder mysteries in real castles
If we graduate from reddit chat -I am on Telegram.
Please address me vanilla-like until we have an agreement (no opening “hey slut”).
If an opening chat just says “hey there”- I will not respond.
I am not rushing into anything. Respect.