Note: I understand that “TPE-ish” is an inherently flawed label, but let’s just overlook that for now, okay? 😉

In the interest of transparency, I want to note some important things up front:

• I am not interested in online-only or doing DM/phone/video play or scening of any kind. It’s just not my thing. I need physical presence.
• Please pass me over if you are cheating on an unknowing partner/spouse (trust me—I will find out) or aren’t interested in monogamy. I cannot do poly or ENM.
• I have a child and cannot relocate.

Now that that’s out of the way!

Looking for a mature, professionally established, college-educated D-Type (no switches), between 45-63 (there is wiggle room there) who lives in the Continental US (preferably in the Upper Midwest, but open to other areas that allow for a direct flight), and who has experience leading in a RL/in-person dynamic.

Someone who takes control in various areas of life and not just the bedroom. This tends to be who someone IS at their core and not a role they play or turn on and off. If you’re only (or mostly) in this for the kink aspect of a dynamic, our interests are not aligned.

Are you seeking what I seek?

My goal is a deep, monogamous relationship, developed over time and with patience, in which I am owned, protected, and cherished by a loving partner. A dynamic grounded in a deep emotional, mental, and psychological connection (and one that ultimately leads to and ends in cohabitation).

In return, I will vulnerably give myself over to you, dedicating my time and attention, and striving to please you. We would not be “just” Dominant and submissive, we would also be partners in a relationship that has all of the day-to-day relationship stuff (the good and the bad).

I am a well-educated professional career woman. I am flirty, playful, cheeky, animated, introspective, and empathetic with a deep need to let everything go and fall into the arms (literally and figuratively) of someone who’s got me. Really got me. If we take the time to build connection and I trust you implicitly, the depths of my willingness to surrender to may be almost unlimited.

Physically, I have light hair, some extra weight and cellulite, a wicked twinkle in my eye and, if I am to believe what people tell me, I am at least moderately attractive (insert something here about typical middle-aged woman insecurities regarding looks). But if you’re looking for an OnlyFans body, it’s not me. Happy to exchange photos if we get to that point, but if you need a photo just to talk to me then we are not a good match.

(Vanilla) interests include movies, travel, entertaining, dining out, reading, and advocacy work. I have a special and unhealthy affinity for online shopping, lunch dates with drinks, and social media engagement. Love dogs, highly allergic to cats.

If you message, please let me know what you think makes us potentially compatible and tell me one of your favorite movies (this helps me weed through people who don’t even care to read what I’ve written here 😉).

More info is available in my profile.

Best of luck out there!