In so much of the erotica with strong, alpha men, the main character’s cock is as large as his personality and power. But in real life, the size of your cock and the strength of your dominance isn’t a 1 x 1 correlation. You might not have representation in mainstream imagination, but your type lives rent free in my mind all the time.

If this describes you, I would love to hear from you.

1. You know that your dick is perfect exactly as it is.

• It is the perfect size and shape, because it is Yours. If anything needs to be changed or accommodated, it’s based on what improves your experience the most.
• Your cock is at least one standard deviation BELOW average (according to scientific studies). That means your perfect penis is at most 4.5 inches long measured on the top and/or smaller than 4.1 inches circumference.

1. Orgasm control is a foundational kink for you.

You believe that your submissive has no inherent right to release. You don’t feel guilty when you don’t allow her to cum, whether intentionally or unintentionally. You know that her orgasm occurs only to please you, not her. Control activities, such as being asked for permission to touch or to cum, providing sexual assignments, or conducting training is fulfilling and erotic for you.

3 You’re available with regularity, but you aren’t looking for something full time

• You must be open to a dynamic with someone who is ethically nonmonogamous - either be the same or be single. You’d be gaining control of my masturbation-based (non-partnered-sex) orgasms, which currently is nearly all of them.
• We’d have some form of communication (not radio silence) most days. You’d like to use me to get off at least once a week, ideally in the 2-4 times a week range when life allows
• You must be willing to have some real-time audio (and potentially video) calls

My Kinks: Orgasm control, tease and denial, edging, male orgasm, anal, asking permission, assignments, voyeurism, mild exhibitionism / forced exposure, wardrobe control, free use, cuckqueaning, sexual unfairness, pussy modification, discipline/punishments

Hard Limits: Scat, water sports, incest, blood, gore, pet play, age play, hypnosis, blackmailing, cheating, food restriction, smoking, illegal activities, face pics

Note: my messages have become overwhelmingly overrun on more than one occasion. I know I’m making a new post that is similar to an old one. If I didn’t answer / dropped off, it’s likely not from lack of interest but rather a lack of overhead. Please try again if you still think you’re a good fit.

Finally, to help me screen for compatibility and get a feel for you faster, in your first message please give me an easy, short, quick sexual assignment to do before I reply to your message. That way we can begin our interactions as we intend to go on - with me obedient and thanking you. :-)

Bonus points if any of these apply:

• You like showing off your cock, sending dick pics and getting worshipful and desperate replies to them
• You are FtM
• You’re more of a 1-minute-man