Hi thx for clicking my ad! I am just going to come out and say it.....I kinda miss Craigslist. I mean sure it could deff be kinda creepy but it also had some of the best sections like the strictly platonic! Which was really only like 35% platonic at best, right? I am looking for something kind of like that. Not quite STRICTLY platonic, but also....not relationship-y either. Maybe more of like a sometimes kinky, "flirtationship." Is that a thing? Can it be?

What I am not looking for is a romantic relationship, or dynamic. I am married, my husband is aware I chat online, you would need to be ok with that. With that being said, I really enjoy talking to others in the BDSM community. BDSM and kink are things I have really enjoyed exploring and learning about. I was raised very religious (I no longer am) and most of my friends circle is incredibly vanilla. I am really hoping I can "meet" some new people with similar interests. I lean more towards the bratty sub side so meeting some new brattie besties would be amazing! I also really enjoy talking to those on the opposite side of the slash from me, and I often get along really well with tamers/wranglers/Daddy Doms. Really anyone that can find enjoyment from the push and pull of a brat, rather than annoyance bc I assure you my bratty energy runs the full spectrum from sweetheart, to chaotic, to feral gremlin...I really enjoy the banter and would love to find someone who is similarly looking for a mutually beneficial distraction where we can both enjoy the back and forth, the teasing, sass, and sarcasm. I am a Gemini and it is true what they say flirting is like a second language, and banter...well that is basically a brats love language! Getting to know someone new, hearing about their experiences, sharing some of mine. The day to day bullshitting. You need attention? I am your girl! But also low key, me too! (Brat remember) Hopefully if we click it could be more of a longer term sort of thing, I am a bit shy at first, I need time to open up but once I feel comfortable I am a pretty open book.

I have no major requirements 30-49 probably. Tamer/wrangler/BrattyDom vibes always welcome! Also subs, and brats.

What you get: late 30s mom/wife. Curvy/BBW don't come for me, I like snacks. College educated, professional, flirty, fun, (imo), sarcastic, unapologetically me. Looks wise if it matters, I am Irish, Brunette, (usually) brown eyes, like 5ft 2 or something. As far as interests, I have a wide variety as I imagine you do as well. Vanilla me is very artsy, like etsy store owner artsy not 5 min diy crafts. I enjoy reading, writing, swimming, anything outdoors, travel and learning about new cultures. I drink way too much starbucks and my fav season is fall. Kinky me is very much into O control, use of toys, CNC, Primal, Auralism, (soft spot for deep voices and accents) breath play, to name a few.

If you don't like curvy women, brats or are looking for nudes or a sexting only relationship pls don't msg me. I don't take orders, and I won't respond to a one line response. I am not in the U.S. so if you hate dealing w timezone issues this likely will not work.

Thx for reading. I am clearly very wordy and have a lot of energy, I am normally a very bubbly person. I am an adult therefore not available 24/7, but I do try my absolute best to match energy/effort. <3