I call myself a sadist but I'm starting to wonder if I'm not a bit of a masochist considering I'm still trying to find my good girl on here. Since sometimes the intro on my profile gets ignored let me be clear...I AM MARRIED, SHE KNOWS. Yes, she will always come before you, yes I will take her wants/wishes into consideration over yours. That does not mean I don't have room in my mind and heart for a submissive. It is simply the reality of the situation though. Also, I am clear with my feelings and prefer direct communication. Do not ghost me. If I'm not for you, have the decency to just say that. I understand that I am one of a massive number of male Doms looking for their sub and you'll have the pick of the litter so to speak. That doesn't mean we can't be upfront and civil to each other.

This is for an online, long term dynamic although if you happen to live in SEMO we could discuss meetups. If you don't know what SEMO is then you probably don't live close enough 😁

I consider myself a Daddy Dom. I'm a great mix of hard and soft. I will get off disciplining, humiliating and degrading you but then I'll pet you and tell you how good you were and how pleased I am. I will be goofy with you. I will joke and tease and say smooshy things. I like to chat daily (not check-ins but conversations that last all day) and enjoy/expect good morning and good night messages. I look forward to hearing all about your day and what you did. I want to be the authority figure you've been craving. Ideally you'll long for my approval and the first thought in your mind would be "What would Daddy want me to do". I enjoy control and will take over any decisions making you're comfortable giving. My favorites are orgasms (duh) and wardrobe.

Kink stuff can be found on my profile. The short of it is you name it I'm probably down for it. Although just because I'm into it and you're not doesn't mean it's a deal breaker for me. Here's the must haves for me... orgasm control/denial, masochist, humiliation/degradation. I also will require pics and maybe videos. That can come after some time and doesn't necessarily need to include face. I've just found that being a strictly online dynamic, I'm most satisfied with visuals showing obedience to my commands/daily tasks. Please for the love of god be able to hold up your end of the conversation preferably with some intelligence and wit. One word replies or replies with just an emoji will make me lose interest very fast.

Things that are a no-go for me... brats. I am not a brat tamer nor do I enjoy the back and forth. A little snark is fine but a single correction better be enough. Age regression. I respect people's needs and kinks it's just not for me. Ddlg is fine just not with the regression included. Last but not least roleplayers. I am not looking for someone that is just out to rp or talk to Daddy until they get off. I want a real submissive looking for a real connection that comes with real tasks, rules and discipline.

Age I would prefer 30 . If you're late 20's and think you fit what I'm looking well then give it a shot and lets see if we click. If you read this whole post DM me and use "smooshy" as the subject. I'm sure I've forgotten stuff. If you have questions hmu. I have a intro and kink list on my profile.