Hey everyone, let's get into it!

Im looking for my forever person! Distance be damned, I'm open to relocation.

To start, if you know what co-regulation is, I'm already smitten.

YOU!

First and foremost I'm looking for someone to grow and change with. Someome who's willing to go through the good bad and ugly together and is willing to make me a priority in their life. You're 30-50 years old, child free, and a non smoker. (Vapes are acceptable) Youre left leaning or even better, far left. You're emotionally intelligent and heavily values open transparent communication. I don't care what height, race, or body size you are, but physical attraction does matter to me a bit, but we won't know til we know! You like to talk daily, have empathy for neediness, and are open to voice calls once a week or so.

About me

I'm a pretty big homebody, I like big brother, Disney, and psychological thrillers. I like some video games (I have a PS4 so multiplayer games would be so fun!) I like to read a lot about psychology and trauma work. If you know some stuff about that, that's HUGE green flags for me! I like going for hikes, bike rides, and doing yoga. Hobbies include reading, cross stitch, and scrap booking. The beach and big trees are my healing sanctuaries. I'm a leftist but have a complex relationship with it and my affinity for power exchange, that being one of my biggest kinks. I like rock music and have an alt style. As mentioned, im a BBW and am hoping my DDom can help me on that journey to shed some pounds. I've done it before I can do it again!

KINKAYYY

I absolutely love power exchange and giving control to my Dom. I can't imagine a relationship without this ingrained in our day to day life. I've been described as a subtle submissive. It's quite and consistent and will simply grow louder with time once you recognize what to look for. I'm also obsessed with spanking. I love a bruised bottom.

Although I'm a little, I'm not really into age play sexually. I like to dress up and I slip into little space during aftercare but am mainly a submissive in the bedroom. That being said, free use is most definitely welcomed and on the table. It isn't a big deal because I mostly age dream, not actual regression. My little side is something deeply connected to my healing journey and something I'm not willing to compromise on at this time. Although I imagine one day growing out of it, it is something I wish to be supported in and even indulged in occasionally.

Other details can be discussed in private!

Nitty gritty

I do have a serious mental illness which keeps me from working full time, so please be comfortable being either the main bread winner or with living a modest life.

Closing notes-

I don't ghost and expect the same courtesy. We are all adults, let's practice being respectful to one another.

I expect us to be compatible on most levels, not just kink. We should click as friends and partners first, I take my kink very seriously, but at the end of the day we are equals and that respect should always be there.

Pleaaassseee reply with thought. Not just hello. Let me know your ideals, expectations, desire, limits, needs. All that stuff. Flex that communication skill for me! I value it highly, show it off!