Genuinely curious; this isn’t a provocation. Unless you want it to be. That could be exciting too. I quite like to provoke under the right circumstances.

In my mind? All submission isn’t created equal. I’m an apex femme scanning her environment for an apex Dom. Apex meaning successful on his own terms, authentic, emotionally intelligent, possessed of all-weather kindness, with a mind that cuts like a hot knife through warm butter. I want impeccable consistency. Manners. Communication. Attraction matters. Curiosity is key.

What could such a Dom expect in return? A lengthy and comically thorough vetting. And succeeding that? A pint-sized Viking of a right hand who would absolutely maul the world by teeth or charm to advance and delight him. With excellent table manners and grace in any situation. A companion who will memorize and catalogue all his likes, dislikes, and behaviors with an unnerving, devoted intensity. Exceed my expectations of a man and receive the full heat of my obsession.

And with time? You can access my wounds. My scars. My devotion. The full shape of my softness once I relax into capable hands. A taste of the incredible tenderness that only one who has gone without it can convey.

I’m happy if any of this connects but please do inventory yourself properly before reaching out.