I'm here to meet new people,  see if we are compatible,  then to meet in real life, go on dates, to develop a relationship or stay chat friends online.  I do not do anything sexual online. For me, sex is part of monogamy committment real relationship with 2 people who love each other ONLY.

I'm a female at birth but I identify as nonbinary/2 spirit. You will see i have both a very dominant male and dominant female personality. So you will need to be accepting and attracted to both. If you're bi I'm your unicorn 🦄 Nonbinary wasn't an option on this subreddit.

I'm most attracted to soft cute males,  androgynous, trans, nonbinary, gender fluid, ftm, mtf.

I enjoy anime gaming kdrama I like fashion, shopping, culture,  delicious food. 

I'm mixed white/asian. I prefer other asian/mixes like myself.  Would love to share safe for work/ face photo early on to see any mutual attraction and not waste each other's time.  Open to friends also. 

I have athletic frame/the tomboy naturally dominant defiant authorative protective personality but still present mostly female in clothing/hair/ makeup style. I can and definitely do pass as a hot male if I want to. My ideal would be to present as male in public and only my partner will see my female identity. 

I am demisexual. I am not allosexual,  I'm not motivated by sex.  For me the dominance is lifestyle in regards to my masculine alpha type personality.  I'm bossy protective controlling  micromanaging jealous strict. It isn't in the assertive promiscuous sexual sense which pollutes most "femdom" porn. So understand this distinction before contacting me. I also must make you aware that I have severe ptsd regarding femininity relating to me,  or submissive acts. I am not feminine i am not submissive and never will be.

I want someone naturally submissive that prioritize my needs and happiness above themselves and exists to serve me.

I'm looking to chat, learn your beliefs values hobbies goals ideals,  date traditionally fall in love and get married.

I'm looking for a soulmate best friend life partner here. So anyone looking for sext, hookups, sugar momma, green card,  look elsewhere. Im also open to nonsexual dynamics.

for romantic consideration Some preferences are-

-sub/slave

-sissy

-cucks

-ace/demi folks

• those searching for intense full time dynamic, total power exchange

-lgbtq folks since I'm nb myself

-east asian(i am mostly attracted to east asian and other mix like myself.)

Some dealbreakers No matter how many times I write it in the title and the post 99% of the messages I receive are from people who don't fit my preferences I have stated in this post. I have dated many types of people through the years trying to find where I belong,  and I came to these conclusions based on what makes me happiest and romantically attracted. I want this respected.  I'm sick of people with yellow fever messaging me hoping they will "change my mind" or be an exception. This is out of respect for you and not to waste your time. Everyone deserves to be happy.  I'm searching for true love and mutual attraction.  Another issue,  despite me saying is that I'm nonbinary. People asking me about gender specific parts or just caring about my sexual parts if I have a vagina etc and not who I am as a person. If sex is all you care about you are definately not the right person for me  If you are searching for a feminine woman who acts feminine, find someone who identifies as a cis female, not me. I am also demisexual.  I'm not into sex based interactions.  I am looking to meet and chat online and then date irl hopefully develop a meaningful serious monogamous love relationship to last a lifetime. If that's not what you're looking for,  there are plenty of other people to message. I'm not going to give out a green card and marry someone from a foreign land because they said some flowery words, in fact it would be preferred if I immigrate to your country and you take care of me ,  I'm not a sugar momma,  I'm not desperate, so please look elsewhere if that's your goal.