I am a smart, cheeky sub wanting to build a meaningful, monogamous, power exchange dynamic. Seeking an IRL/in-person ONLY D/s relationship (not play partner situation) with a 40 Dom or Master who is experienced in real life BDSM dynamics and activities. No cheaters, smokers, newbies, couples, swingers, switches, or anyone young enough to be my son. Uninspiring introductions (“Hey there”) aren’t worthy of a response. No interest in online kinky role-play.

Me: Charismatic. Caring. Chubby. Convivial. Complex. Devoted. Daring. Demisexual. Discerning. Empathetic. Evolving. Enthralling. Expressive. Eager. Flirty. Feisty. Fiery. Loyal. Loving. Lustful. Mischievous. Masochistic. Monogamous. Mercurial. Sassy. Sensual. Sarcastic. Smart. Sentimental. Seductive. Selective. Spirited.

You: Attentive. Assured. Assertive. Accomplished. Consistent. Communicative. Confident. Committed. Chivalrous. Compelling. Decisive. Deliberate. Depraved. Experienced. Emotive. Engaging. Educated. Professional. Possessive. Polished. Persistent. Provocative. Patient. Perceptive. Pursuant. Reputable. Responsible. Responsive. Trustworthy. Thoughtful. Tactical.

Yes to: Mental seduction. Impact. Romance. Being a priority. Making you a priority. Frequent phone and video chats. Bondage. Consent. Rick rolls. Praise. Body modification. Dates. Alignment between words and actions. Methodically influencing my mind and actions. CNC. Matching my energy. Respect. Emotional availability. Wrapping your hands tightly around my throat. Honesty. Deep connection. Strong arms. Safety. Markings. Tomfoolery. Impact. Starbucks. Bondage. Journaling. Ownership. Long talks. Collars. Personal growth. Sensory play. Road trips. Possessiveness. Discipline. Rules. Cards Against Humanity. Compassion. Tasks. Afternoons at the pool. Regular communication throughout the day. Witty banter. Edge play. Adult beverages. Sarcasm. Progressing the relationship. Providing and receiving care.

No to: Vapid conversations. Candy corn. Needle play. Early mornings. Threesomes. Play partners or casual. Misogyny. Mixed messages. Anyone with a Grizzly Adams look. Cat owners. Lactation. Inexperience with impact tools. Slow left-hand lane drivers. Political apathy. White chocolate. Scientologists. Being shared or loaned out. Toxic positivity. Watersports. Being someone’s side chick. Poly. Toby Keith. Age regression. Permanent marks. Conspiracy theorists. Foot fetishists. Messaging me about my car’s extended warranty. Live, laugh, lovers. Dr. Phil. Watching professional sports as punishment.

More info can be gleaned from posts on my profile.

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