I’m 49, open to 35-60

Brown, 5’9”, Silver hair, glasses, brown eyes, slightly freckled, Large and tall.

Location: Ontario, Canada (online to get to know someone, must be able to meet in person.) *HOURS away from Toronto

Willing to exchange photos…

Looking For Romance! Dates, Long-Term.

I appreciate people who are well groomed, polite, self-sufficient, honest, kind, and emotionally available (this means not in a relationship). Be a good communicator, have your own hobbies and passions so we have real things to talk about and share. Witty and well read will make me swoon. A great sense of humour and being occasionally playful is the kind of interaction I enjoy.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Dealbreakers include you being in a relationship already, smoking cigarettes, online only with no intention of ever meeting. Unkindness. Requirements: self sufficient, can host, can travel, have things together and are open minded.

I love words. Reading, listening, having conversations. I like to observe things, get comfortable before I dive in. I'm a people person, an optimist, and a learner.

Single, queer, living in a 3 generation home. I love to travel! Interests include books, movies, live music, learning, BIPOC issues, 2SLGBTQIA community, reconciliation, and learning to capture images. Also driven at work and with learning opportunities, I do need to shift some of this focus to spending more time outside or being hands on, perhaps you can help with that. Canoeing? Roller skating? Paddle boarding?

NSFW Section:

I’ve been able to dive in and learn more about my kink likes and interests the last few years. This has been through hands on learning, attending events and workshops in-person and online. Specifically I’ve invested in rope, impact play, D/s safety and confidence among others. Always learning, would prefer to learn together with someone.

I have had some wonderful partners on both sides of the slash, both while exploring (briefly) as a submissive, and as a D-type which is much more natural for me. I appreciate and encourage open, honest, and kind communication to develop and maintain trust. My experience means I invest in the things I enjoy.

I enjoy a variety of gender expression, for celebration rather than humiliation. I like obedient lovelies and discovering how to get them to voice delicious sounds. Be helpful! Be curious, be kind, be a little silly. I enjoy rope, bondage, tease and denial, orgasm control, service, objectification, and I have a sadistic streak. I appreciate an artistic exhibitionist – if we can’t be together yet make artful porn for me. Or porny art. (I stole that from one such artist.)

Limits: Hard - Non-consent (ie. Children, animals, death), permanent marks, marks where public can see, scat, watersports. Soft Limits – blood, humiliation, brats

NSFW Dealbreakers/Requirements: Be within the age range (or very amazing if you are a year or so out). Be able to meet in person. I only engage in kink play in person with folks I’m romantically involved with.