First, an apology in advance.

English is not my first language ; may your bleeding eyes, slain by the grammar errors that will invevatibly show up in this post, forgive me.

Gender Identity

I am a trans woman, my pronouns are she/her.

I am in the process of getting hormones - but it's a long process. I am lucky enough to have a good enough fem passing.

I am not out as trans everywhere, but in the process as well.

Non kinky interests Because before being a Kinky person, I am a Human being with a beating heart, here are my general interests.

It would be sweet if we shared at least some of them, because I am not only looking for a Domme - I am also looking for a lover and potential partner ; deep connections at the very least.

• Reading / literature, and poetry in particular. I would love to find another poetry driven soul. It would be awesome if we could write together sometimes.
• Human Rights- I am an active militant.
• Philosophy, Politics, Human behaviour, Queer theory..
• Music : these days, mostly free jazz, black metal and techno- or any music that constantly walks on the edge of disharmony, without ever falling down.

Kinky interests

• TPE, power dynamics, protocols in general. Anything that helps create and maintain the sacred bond between a submissive and their Owner.
• Spankings. Does this one need an explanation?
• Enforced gender stereotypes. Some kind of "drag BDSM" if you will?
• Chastity play, teasing, denial. Drive me insane by taking me to that special place where I am so desperate to cum that I will beg for release and so desperate to please you that I will beg you to lock me forever- at the same time.
• Service submission

My limits would mostly be anything illegal or dangerous (physically, socially and psychologically). Yes, that's a wide range of things. But that's the general idea.

You will be my Domme and take control over my life, but I also want to have sweet, romantic times and never-ending discussions.

Another thing is, I am very much into the psychological aspect of BDSM. I need to know the reason for everything happening. "Because it pleases me" is a very good reason ; I still need to hear it. I also tend to overthink everything.

Some general, boring stuff to read before applying - I am in my early thirties ; please be over 23. - Title of the post says "4F" ; it goes without saying that trans women are women and therefore fall in the "4F" category. I will also consider NB folks, or anyone queer in general. - I am mostly available evenings CET time - I am looking for an online relationship at start, that would end up in real life meetings, and romance.

In your first message, please include your age, your pronouns and your general location, what attracted you to my ad, your main interests in life, your kinks and limits.

Also remember : the way you introduce yourself will tell me way more than any question I could ask you.