Hi, Iām 30, live in NY (not the city) and Iāve been into BDSM and kink for at least 5 years but I havenāt explored it much in person. I have not been with anyone in a long time and would like a positive experience with at least one person. It does not have to be an ongoing relationship, but it could turn into a FWB if it goes well.
We can discuss our specific kinks more in depth as we get to know each other. But to give a quick idea, Iām pretty basic. I am not into extreme pain. Im into following directions, ābeing usedā, slight degradation, and praise. I like the daddy dom dynamic, a mix between a soft and strict dom.
Non-kinky stuff: Iām a teacher, creative, I like cats, puzzles, art, and theatre. Iām liberal. Iām fat. Looks donāt matter to me, I have a pic on my bio.
Non-negotiables: we have to form some kind of a connection and get alone. I need to be shown respect. You must be single. We will be safe. Open communication is essential and we need to have a few phone calls before meeting. :)
To help weed out spam, if you read this tell me you age, where you live, and your most non-negotiable kink/deal-breaker for this type of situation.
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