I'm 40f bi, poly, switch. I'm a busy working mom that would love to have fun and connect with people. I am poly, my husband knows I'm here. He would not be involved unless you and I click, that's something we both want, and you click with him. I have a high sex drive but that's not the only facet of my personality.

Important: I don't get involved with Trump supporters. You want to fuck over the world, you don't get to fuck me. Don't be an asshole, be respectful and kind, and you can expect the same from me. Enthusiastic consent is a must from all parties. If you can't get involved with someone without 420 or alcohol, no thank you. It muddies up consent and can trigger my asthma.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking to meet someone online and move the relationship offline. If you have zero interest in meeting offline, I'm probably not the person for you. I want to form a genuine connection, not just have a one night stand. I am open to FWB or having another partner, depending on how we click.

This post may seem broad because I'm really looking to see how I connect with someone, I'm not just looking for a machine to pump quarters into and get sex out of. I'm pretty GGG and willing to give new things a shot, within reason.

For women: I am truly a switch with women. I'd love to submit to you and worship your body. I'd be your little slave and do anything you say. OR: you can submit to me and I can spoil my good girl. I'm a gentle femdom that loves working with experienced or inexperienced subs. Women who wear collars, stockings, professional work attire to the front of the line. I'm absolutely weak in the knees for beautiful women.

For men: I'm not looking to submit to you, sorry. I like to dominate men. I can be either gentle or cruel. But either way, you don't cum until I say so. If you send me a dick pic, I will block you.

For couples: this can be a mess, so I'm wary. I don't want to date a couple. I'll probably fuck her and if I vibe with him we can go from there. If the couple is both women, sign me the fuck up. Two men is going to be a hard sell because I want to make sure of my safety.

Kinks: praise/bring praised, dirty talk, anal, dressing up/bring dressed up for, spanking/being spanked, body worship/being worshipped, denying you an orgasm, first same sex experience, clingy & attentive partners, erotica, roleplay, goth/alt girls, nipple piercings, service subs, toys, bondage, biting, discipline, kneeling, leashes/collars, light pain, roleplay, showering together, I'm sure there's more but my mind is going blank.

Limits: nothing illegal, blood/scat/pee, incest, "mommy"/"daddy" stuff. nudes (because of my job), CNC, exhibitionism

Not looking to pay or be paid. No shade on SW, but it's not for me.

If any of this works for you, send me a message.