*Preliminary note, since it will be important for some of you : I am an early transition trans woman, out in safe circles, not hormones yet. My pronouns are she/her.

Also, I am polyamourous.*

Now that we have adressed what will make some of you flee... let's see about what will hopefully make the rest of you stay.

Non kinky interests

Because before being a Kinky person, I am a Human being with a beating heart, here are my general interests. It would be sweet if we shared some of them, because I am not only looking for a Domme - I also want a friend and possibly a lover ; deep connections at the very least.

• I love reading /literature in general, and poetry in particular. I would love to find another poetry driven soul.
• I take great interest in philosophy, politics, human behaviour, queer theory.
• I am an activist for Human Rights. That takes some time and energy but is very much worth it.
• I absolutely love music (folk and poetic lyrics but also free jazz, black metal and techno. Yes, my neighbours love me, why do you ask ?)

Kinky interests - TPE, power dynamics, protocols in general. - Chastity play, teasing, denial. - Service submission - Humiliation - Pain play - Anal

I also have limits ; I haven't listed them here because I prefer to discuss everything that we will do. Yes, even what I listed as interest. It goes without saying that we will both have safewords.

You will be my Domme and take control over my life, but I also want to have sweet, romantic times and never-ending discussions.

Another thing is, I am very much into the psychological aspect of BDSM. I need to know the reason for everything happening. "Because it pleases me" is a very good reason ; I still need to hear it. I also tend to overthink everything.

Some general, boring stuff to read before applying

• I am in my early thirties ; please be over 25.
• I am mostly available evenings CET time
• I work full time

In your first message, please include your age, your pronouns and your general location.

Also remember : the way you introduce yourself will tell me way more than any question I could ask you.