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Hello! Thank you for clicking in to have a look at what weâre looking for.
As the title describes, weâre 44m and 43f in a Dom/Sub dynamic/relationship. The only kicker is that weâre 100% online at the moment. The 44m in this arrangement is single and available to start something online and/or IRL, while the 43f is married and currently working through what it means to be in an âopenâ relationship.
So what does that mean for you? That means that youâd be fully engaged with the Dom. 100% his Sub while also being 100% a sub-sister to her.
A little about your future Dom
A man that is highly conversational. He believes fully in engaging about everything, no matter how difficult the subject might be. The hope is always to come out on the other side stronger, and thatâs what he strives for in any relationship/dynamic.
A caregiver that is loving, adoring while also very interested in tasks. Loves the process of coming up with tasks and watching as they unfold, and the outcome of the aftermath where his caregiver sidekicks back in.
Although this seems counter-intuitive given the ad, fiercely monogamous. He is open-minded, which has led us to this search. He wants to remain loyal to me, while also remaining loyal to you. He expects that this will be your only relationship/dynamic (weâll be happy to explain more about the entire situation when we get to that stage together).
A little about your future Sub-Sister
A beautiful, caring mother of two. Has a nurturing side that sheâs working hard to understand more with each passing day.
A professional career woman that cares deeply about all those she interacts with; sheâs someone that will fight fiercely for those she cares for, and when that becomes you, the love and adoration youâll feel will make your heart explode with joy.
An open minded bisexual woman that loves the thought of us all being together in an open and loving relationship; a sub-sister to share experiences with and talk about how to please her Dom alongside you.
Wonderfully self-reflective. While it is scary to work on oneself, itâs also something she doesnât shy away from. Sheâs grown so much over the past year weâve been together itâs incredible to see.
Loyal and trustworthy. Weâve always made conversation and communication our number one priority. Being able to have the difficult conversations is something that is harder for her, but she doesnât run away from them. We love each other and have so much love that weâre here today looking for someone to join us, to share in our love.
A little about you?
18 . For some reason this needs to be written. But, under no circumstance contact us if youâre underage.
Single. You must be single. No other entanglements whatsoever.
You can be new/experienced in the lifestyle.
Bicurious. While you can be heavily leaning towards men and being straight, it is important that youâre at least open to the idea of being with another woman. Our relationship will be all three of us, at points, so itâs important that youâre comfortable interacting with both of us sexually.
Open-minded and conversational. This is paramount in any relationship, but a relationship with a dynamic makes it so much more important. We have both lived difficult lives where we havenât been able to be open with our significant others, and we have no interest in that life ever again.
Open to meeting IRL. While weâre comfortable with much of the relationship being online at first, this is with the end goal of having something IRL and tangible. He lives in Ontario, Canada, which will likely be the location youâd need to be, or open to relocating.
The long and short of it
We realize this was a very long post and appreciate you taking the time to get to the end!
So whatâs next?
Introduce yourself! We both have access to this account, and as we respond to you weâll indicate who is doing the response (likely him at first). So, what do we want to know?
Tell us what excited you about reading our post.
What excites you about the idea of being part of who we are.
Tell us how old you are.
What your name is.
Where youâre from.
Are you open to meeting?
Weâd like to see what you look like, attraction is obviously important (weâre happy to do the same), so send a photo or two if youâre comfortable.
Do you have any experience in the lifestyle? If you do, what kind of Sub are you? If you donât, how did you discover youâre a Sub?
Anything else you want us to know...?
We look forward to hearing from you!
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