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A reoccurring issue I have with my current dom and past doms is that they never really think about why I’m bratting. They just see bratting as me trying to bad. Now I’m usually very well behaved except when I scared of being abandoned and want attention sometimes I’ll brat. I don’t intentionally do it . I just wish they’d realize that I’m just crying for attention, I’m not trying to be bad. I’ve tried communicating but they never seem to get it. And cause they don’t get that I’m bratting cause I’m scared or just want love and attention I just get these brutal punishments that just make me more scared.
I’m not sure what to do or how I could better communicate with them. Any advice?
Because this isn't a healthy reason to be a brat. Bratting needs to be negoatiated and that is where you would have had this conversation, as well as what bratting is allowed and what isn't.
If punishments cause more mental pain, why have them?
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