Hey everyone!

Seeking honest advice here to make an educated decision. I’ve been into kink going on 12 years now. I’ve had several experiences with people I’ve met online over the years via fetlife, tinder, recon, etc.But all of those sessions have been based on no payment. The “relationship” was more organic. I am in a point in my life where I currently do not have a partner that enjoys kink but we love eachother enough she’s okay with me seeking kinky outlets. After years of online video sessions with domme’s I finally want to take it to the next level and do an in person meeting.

I found someone fetlife who is interested in the same things I am but requires it be a paid session. I am looking for ball busting, humiliations, degradation, and would like to cum from ball busting. She’s stated that pussy/ass worship is included in the price. No sex (obviously). But my question is… is this legal?

No more I think about it and work myself up to doing an in person meeting the more I think about the legality of this all and get worried. I don’t want to waste her time but also do not want to end up in jail or with a charge for something stupid. I’ve tried researching the laws locally but seems like any contact what so ever for exchange of money is an offense.

.any advice would be greatly appreciated! I am also in the United States for reference.